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Dame Ningen no Aishikata / How to Love a LoserOk what maga are you all talking about? I wanna join in.
Dame Ningen no Aishikata / How to Love a LoserOk what maga are you all talking about? I wanna join in.
So there is ntr in this? Seems like a weird love story right now. Ex is nuts isn't she? Well fuck me that got depressing.Dame Ningen no Aishikata / How to Love a Loser
This is another great NTR bait. If we look at the FMC's flashbacks with her ex-boyfriend, and we see a panel of her in underwear but very ambiguous, my opinion is that she was planning to give him her virginity, that he won't leave her because of his insecurities about his father's abandonment, but before she could, she discovered that her ex-boyfriend was cheating on her.So there is ntr in this? Seems like a weird love story right now. Ex is nuts isn't she? Well fuck me that got depressing.
The only NTR we have in this is that in the past FMC's Ex cheated on her and she found out. And now the major debate that people have is that she gave her 1st time to the Ex and not MC... Which doesn't matter at all IMO, she didn't even know MC then.So there is ntr in this? Seems like a weird love story right now. Ex is nuts isn't she? Well fuck me that got depressing.
So basically you point in this whole discussion was "FMC doesn't love MC romantically (for now)", and you have a neutral stance on everything else? Ok then, now that this is cleared up we can move on...If all you wanted was my personal take on the chapter, then here, happy?
Do I personally think she had sex in the latest chapter? Dunno, the author actually never showed what happened. She could have went through with it, she also couldn't have and cancelled after the drinks. She could even had went drinking after doing, or not doing the deed. The current theory based on what's revealed thus far leans on maybe, but since it's not been proven yet, you choose what you think happened, I won't.
Do I personally think the rumours about her being a slut in the past is true? Dunno, the author never revealed the truth yet. It could be just slander, it could have actually happened. At the moment, it is leaning towards "maybe, but she her reasons" if, AND ONLY IF, she went all the way with the guy in the latest chapter.
Do I personally think she is romantically in love with the MC? No, at least not yet. What has been shown was that she did not want to separate from him (chapter 4 flashback) indicating dependency (she NEEDS to be beside him to truly feel happy), they did get separated once (her disappearing from Naoto 10 years prior), all her current actions in the present is so that they won't get separated again (because she NEEDS to be beside him to truly feel happy, she likely doesn't even know what it means to be romantically attracted to someone).
Do I personally believe her statement that she does not have a lover? Yes, because of her dependency on the MC's mere presence beside her making her feel truly happy like she had in the past, she does not want or even need ANYTHING ELSE, that may include becoming lovers with the MC. She probably doesn't even know what it means to be "romantically in love" with someone because she feels happy enough just by being within the MC's vicinity.
Do I personally believe the two will be together by the end of the story? In one way or another, yes. This is pretty much guaranteed, but the shape on how they will be together in the end remains a mystery for another day.
Do I personally think the author flew too close to Katsura? Story-wise? No, despite all the sus possibilities that could've meant NTR happened, there's always a way out with the possibility that NTR never happened via not showing the readers what actually happened by blocking the view or a timeskip. IRL? Probably, there are reports of people getting mad about the latest chapter in Twitter, not that it matters, I mean it's Twitter, people get mad at everything there.
Do I personally care much for Katsura's future career as an author? For mainstream consumption? No, what her Editors gave the ok for release is very much career-ending, sabotage levels even one could say if they have the evidence for it. For doujin works? No, unless she makes an official "I'm Gonna Fix That Girl version" of her works, she's not going to be a go-to.
Will I pick a side, YES or NO, in the whole "is the manga NTR or NOT?" debate? No, my side is always "only what the author had revealed so far".
Do I personally think the MC and FMC will have sex? Dunno, the author could write it so the two could have sex the next chapter, the last chapter, or not at all. Until the author reveals the truth, remember... Nothing Is True, Everything is Permitted.
Let me just correct you a bit... If you're talking about the people in this thread, the only one that got some sort of damage is box. Which is understandable since he followed it for years and is a hopeless romantic, as he said...KA did so much damage to people recently that any deep backstory is immediately downplayed. It's either that, or people truly just read for the "plot" and not the actual plot.
the female mc mother got cheated on and the fmc got cheated on by her ex so the mc does not get ntredThis is another great NTR bait. If we look at the FMC's flashbacks with her ex-boyfriend, and we see a panel of her in underwear but very ambiguous, my opinion is that she was planning to give him her virginity, that he won't leave her because of his insecurities about his father's abandonment, but before she could, she discovered that her ex-boyfriend was cheating on her.
But if she slept with her ex-boyfriend, it can't be considered Ntr
And I agree with that. Marriage sounds so out of place in this scenario to me. But I’m just going with what she said to him. I can see her still being a virgin but I can also see that she is no virgin. If it’s bait than I have to say the mangaka got me good because I think she is no longer a virginRespectfully i’m ngl first marriage doesn’t make much sense so it’s probably something else. It could also be that she almost did it with her ex but actually didn’t because he dumped her. The artist also recently responded on her twitter she will be making a happy ending for both of them so let’s see. Also, i don’t think it really matters if he got her first time or not if she is going to have her baby lol.
For real, they didn’t even know each other at that time. Also the author said she will be making a happy ending for the both of them. So most likely we will see them married and have kids. Why would her giving her first time to him or not even matter anymore at that point lol.The only NTR we have in this is that in the past FMC's Ex cheated on her and she found out. And now the major debate that people have is that she gave her 1st time to the Ex and not MC... Which doesn't matter at all IMO, she didn't even know MC then.
Glad to hear it, after all she's been trough (that back story was really hard to read ngl) she deserves some real happiness!For real, they didn’t even know each other at that time. Also the author said she will be making a happy ending of the both of them. So most likely we will see them married and have kids. Why would her giving her first time to him or not even matter anymore at that point lol.
I just want to see both of them change to be better people and a healthy couple. Also from what the author is saying there could be a chance she is actually giving her first time to him. Not that it matters but it would be so sweet and makes sense because she did said she wants to give one of her first time to him.Glad to hear it, after all she's been trough (that back story was really hard to read ngl) she deserves some real happiness!
I've said that in my original post the entire time.So basically you point in this whole discussion was "FMC doesn't love MC romantically (for now)", and you have a neutral stance on everything else? Ok then, now that this is cleared up we can move on...
Yup, she got you with the surprise fastball right at then end, not as bad as box, but she still got to you. The question now is, WHY DID HER EDITOR(S) GAVE THE OK TO PUBLISH THAT CHAPTER? They barely get any heat when they're the ones that held the keys to the car.Let me just correct you a bit... If you're talking about the people in this thread, the only one that got some sort of damage is box. Which is understandable since he followed it for years and is a hopeless romantic, as he said...
The rest of us, a bit fat NO! We're just making fun of this situation and everything related to NTR. Why? Mostly because the most enjoyable part of Grapara was the comment section and the little community that was made from it. We don't take any of this serious, this also refers to the "plot" part you mentioned. We searched for the plot and deep meaning for to long in Grapara, we're kinda worn out from it now lol Wait! Does this also count as damage from KA? Maybe it does... Fuck lol
Anyway, sorry for the rambling, we're just keeping this thread alive now for fun and waiting for a possible Epilogue in the last Grapara vol (to be disappointed even more lol).
Personally, I always appreciate differing opinions, especially when they are grounded in reason.that will age like milk in a few weeks. Not to mention despite that the majority think that they will sleep together and be together in a few weeks… none of that matters until the author reveals what happens next. the approval is rn in front of you. Also coping my comments make you look embarrassing. Saying that have a good day and keep going with your useless assumptions![]()
Dame Ningen no Aishikata / How to Love a Loser
From a story stand point the mc getting he girlfriend or wife or harem back and having a happy life with them should get the ntr guy to have a mental break down because that means that everything he did to make the women his get's undone
This is another great NTR bait. If we look at the FMC's flashbacks with her ex-boyfriend, and we see a panel of her in underwear but very ambiguous, my opinion is that she was planning to give him her virginity, that he won't leave her because of his insecurities about his father's abandonment, but before she could, she discovered that her ex-boyfriend was cheating on her.
But if she slept with her ex-boyfriend, it can't be considered Ntr
You guys, please don't try to change my mind to read this manga because I've only finished one of the revenge manga on the list @Cross-21- had given so far! LOLThe only NTR we have in this is that in the past FMC's Ex cheated on her and she found out. And now the major debate that people have is that she gave her 1st time to the Ex and not MC... Which doesn't matter at all IMO, she didn't even know MC then.
You guys, please don't try to change my mind to read this manga because I've only finished one of the revenge manga on the list @Cross-21- had given so far! LOL
I think the author has a masochism fetish.New Ueno ch delivers again! I almost died laughing at the development on the last few pages!![]()
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I think all the men in that manga are masochists 😂I think the author has a masochism fetish.![]()
And i think we'll may have a part 2 of the bullies doing it with him again with Manaka.The author posted on her/his X page a pannel that she/he draw of Chisaki and wrote "it will continue a little longer".I think the author has a masochism fetish.![]()
Yeah, for sure! But who saw that coming!? This author is a god damn legendI think the author has a masochism fetish.![]()