Having re-read this just recently I have come to the conclusion that were this to happen IRL then the Commander would get done for massive sexual harassment.
I mean that poor girl CLEARLY has psychological and social development disorders and yet every single time they meet he's kissing her fingers or running her hand across his face because he enjoys watching her get flustered.
DUDE - leave her the f**k alone when she's working. If she's off the clock and wants to invite you over for some finger or hair stroking or whatever it is crazy otherworld kids are doing these days then that's fine - she's a grown ass woman who can make decisions like that - BUT NOT AT WORK. She's clearly got a shitty job having to muck out two tons of rabbit shit a day and I bet washing beaver fur is a fucking bitch and I know from experience how annoying looking after birds is and those were pigeon sized and not 1 ton car sized giant eagles. She's got all that AND a Boss clearly trying to fuck her....
That poor poor woman