i dont know why genderswap is a turn off or a red flag, they are technically a girl even if they think and act like a boy, there are females who are very boyish or may even wish they were a boy, but if they dated a girl its still lesbian (until they actually start saying they are a boy) i think to most people, what their mind is, is irrelevent, what matters is their actual body (transgenders like myself are a perfect example, most people dont really accept me, because my mind is irrelevent, only my body, even though ive had it changed, feelsbadman)