As someone who used to be bullied in middle school, even if I am stronger than I was when I was younger, I would have a hard time confronting my bullies now. The power dynamic might've changed, but the feeling of despair still lingers. While I've slowly gotten over the trauma, his wounds are still clearly way too fresh. The fact that people are judging the poor dude, who clearly is still dealing with the trauma of being bullied, is disheartening. I PRAY that your children (if you are even capable of ever having any) never experience bullying, because I know you will never give them the proper support and care they need. That they will fall into their own darkness, and no one will be there to save them.