@vhad23
Honestly this is the author’s fault for making her this stupid, but more so the time period the story is set in gives her limited option. Regardless its victim blaming to stay its her fault for thinking to failing to find a way out of situation, especial in the time period. Do you think there are woman shelters or child services in the 19th,18 century? All these services are new to the 20th century. [and I mean child services for the woman as she was being abused as a child as well, regardless of she is older now.]]
Lots of the other Korean- euro fantasy basically have the FL only escape abusive after the where abused their entire life and went back in time, or they know the future from a novel.[So they can play 4D cheese because they have a cheat. This FL doesn’t have any of that.
The further you go back in history the more misogynistic it is. Plenty of people still think woman have less “value” if they slept with a man…aka a slut and even worst in a historical setting. So she ruined her “value” by sleeping with a guy..as an unmarried woman no less [the sandal !]. Its a sexist ideology but she used the logic in the time period she lives to escaped being abused more by a different person. Honestly she had the option of continued physical abuse father or being raped by the other guy.[her option where bad] Most woman were not taught skills that could help them survive or run a business, they were taught social skills like how to talk eloquently, etiquette and how to entertain people at parties. So even if she ran away, she had no skills to survive. She wouldn't have been taught critical thinking skills to figure out that much as well.
And she doesn’t have future vision to plan out allies she should go get, and business she should start that she knows will successful like other Euro fantasy romances. Its not as satisfying as knowing someone is going to destroy an entire family with the well though out plan they have made based on future vision powers- but her way of dealing with her abuse is realistic to what a normal person could think of short term. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ I doubt she thought to plan for her father's increased abuse after the fact as most people that are being abused are just trying to survive the day not the year.