@Darkmint13 She met with another man's bf at a public park,cafe and a library and the gf was nowhere to be seen.
It wasn't her intention to steal him away. But still she must've been retarded if she thought that the guy ( who is the real piece of shit here) would've told his gf that he was gonna hang out with another girl. Also he has a gf and he still texted her out of nowhere. If these things didn't make the FL suspicious, she must've been really stupid.
And how was she supposed to know that his girlfriend didn't know they were talking together. One would think he got her number from the girlfriend because she gave it to him! It's not her job to keep him in line
Fine, but what about meeting up together. She seriously couldn't have expected her friend to allow the two of them to meet up without her right? Also, why would a girl just give her bf another girl's number. Even if he was the one who had asked for it, that would've made her suspicious right then
She
is an adult right? Isn't she supposed to know how this would look like to others.
Now look at it from the friend's POV. She found that her bf had been texting her friend and hanging out with her and neither the FL nor her bf had told her about it. Any normal person would've thought that they were cheating on her and FL decided to break up later by refusing him.
The guy is to blame here, but the FL's stupidity is to blame too. If you had been an ordinary witness and not known how the FL lacks common sense or her side of the story, you would've also only seen them exchanging texts and hanging out without telling the FL's friend.
She should've refused acting close to him right from the start. So she isn't really at fault but she's not completely innocent either