True! I didn't consider that, but now that I think about it, she does seem a bit oblivious... Especially since she barely seems aware or even to care about the rumors that are around her,
Yeah that's a fair argument, especially coming off the first point I quoted just prior, then again, noble society as it's portrayed in the book seems like a bunch of people with arbitrary rules, and she's kinda new to everything so I don't blame her for having no one else to reach to really...considering her lack of initiative she takes to learn noble etiquette and just leaning on her sister to teach her everything... ...