I think he's waiting for her to deal with it herself or smth, he's had whole internal monologues about how he's on her side and stuff so I don't believe that he just doesn't gaf as he appears to. Possibly waiting for her to ask for help, maybe turn her against her dad. There's a few things that he could be trying to do, but he definitely doesn't just want her to suffer. This is a pretty bad way to go about it tho....