Lol. You've essentially put the cart before the horse, but you're too far up your own self-righteous ass to realize it. You see, the only way to progress to the act of proper apologies, be it dogeza, song and dance, or whatever nonsense you deem fit, is for one to establish fault to begin with. Instead, you've tapped into your own fee-fees because you saw some fictional damsels in distress being rightfully criticized by readers, and who are entirely deserving of said criticism, and it made you feel bad. No, the 2D drawings are not going to sleep with you. Your embarrassing attempt at absolving fault, and skipping straight to apologies as if this somehow expedites things for the issue at hand, instead of complicates it later, is entirely juvenile and not how healthy relationships work. Ironic given you're cosplaying as an adult. Why would they even begin apologize if they don't think they've done anything wrong? Are you even attempting to try and comprehend the situation here? Are you even capable?
You're reading a fantasy manga, dumbass. Suspension of disbelief allows for the attack not to be instant. It allows for a romcom obsessed MC. It allows for the MC to have time to needlessly waste time apologizing for doing nothing wrong instead of focusing on the attack. Do you not realize that he didn't even have to bring up ANY of this right now, pre attack? That they would have worked just fine with him, allowing for heart-to-hearts afterwards. But he did it anyway. And because he did it, we, as readers, can criticize how stupid it was within that fantasy manga suspension of disbelief. We're well aware of how dumb all of this is. We know there's priority issues. The fact that MC is apologizing for their own misunderstanding after all the shit he went through, after being assaulted by a girl, with witnesses, is simply so stupid, that it has people buzzing about it, and understandably so. It breaks that suspension of disbelief. It's not a complex thing to comprehend. You don't think the author is going to resolve the attack regardless through manga magic? What a stupid angle to focus on.
Given your rhetoric wishing other people to "remain single for good," (lmao, do you have any self awareness?) it's very clear you're terminally online and don't really understand how basic human interaction works. There is absolutely nothing wrong with readers of this manga finding fault in these girls for how this MC has been treated here. It's banter, it's discussion, and it's not that deep. Touch grass immediately.