Dude deserves every bit of misfortune that befalls him if that's his decision process while on the phone with his girlfriend.
I think I'm at the point where I just want him to be unhappy.
And sorry - Anju's hurting, but that is some real bullshit from her end, and whatever her hangups or self-worth issues, it's fundamentally not okay on her part. I suspect she'll not see repercussions for it, or that worse he'll cover for her, or something.
I feel so bad for Nonoka.