Kakawatte wa Ikenai Type no Musume ga Kanojo ni Natta - Vol. 3 Ch. 55

[Jferrer0]

Idk if you're excusing her but at the end of the day she's an adult. There is no excuse

Not excusing but explaining behaviour, people tend to self perpetuate their own destructive behaviours.

It is not born out of them wanting to be shitty people, but rather out of traumatic or unpleasant experiences.

People who hurt are generally hurt themselves, it is not an excuse to not try to change but a lot of those people really aren't aware of their own shitty behaviour because it is just something they do now.

It becomes ingrained behaviour and changing is difficult, in her case it took someone breaking every negative expectation she had to finally realise she was a bad person and to change herself for the better.

 

[Terrich]

People in the comments overreacting and acting like this chapter shows her fucking the new dude.

 

[CynicalPepper]

Not excusing but explaining behaviour, people tend to self perpetuate their own destructive behaviours.

It is not born out of them wanting to be shitty people, but rather out of traumatic or unpleasant experiences.

People who hurt are generally hurt themselves, it is not an excuse to not try to change but a lot of those people really aren't aware of their own shitty behaviour because it is just something they do now.

It becomes ingrained behaviour and changing is difficult, in her case it took someone breaking every negative expectation she had to finally realise she was a bad person and to change herself for the better.

She is perfectly aware what she is doing is wrong. And the whole point of this arc is her going back to her old ways and not changing

 

[Jferrer0]

She is perfectly aware what she is doing is wrong. And the whole point of this arc is her going back to her old ways and not changing

The reason she is going back to her old behaviour is because she feels scared that he won't like her if he knows the truth so rather than holding out hope she has just decided she isn't good enough.

It is the same reason people relapse into self destructive behaviours, they are scared, they stumble and they run away into the very habits they were trying to break because they are scared they can't do it because they stumbled.

It happens to addicts all the time, in the process of being sober and kicking the addiction, they will stumble and consume again, which causes them to feel like they can't or like they are wrong because they failed once.


She is right now at that point of being scared, but she is scared that the only person who has shattered her negative biases will hate her, it is important that he knows who she was because he has the power to help her break through that fear to reach positive change.

 

[FiddlePop]

She had a ribbon around her colar in Pg 1 but not in Pg 2
My immersion is ruined, I can never read any manga now.
Good bye cruel (Manga) world

 

[Arya07]

Do not fix her

 

[Deathhappens]

So they bumped into each other on the street and he instantly took her shopping (for expensive stuff to boot)? Is this supposed to mirror compensated dating or something?

 

[BakedBanana]

Men in this world really don't have faces I see.