Im kinda sad everyone hates her, all she knows is the guy fucking disappeard with no previous word 5 years ago when they had some kind of appointment (i assume to play). He just mental boomed out of the picture when he could stay there for her and make a step back from playing, so yea now hes dying and all but that doesnt make him nicer, just pitier.
Not hating the guy, just making a point that her being mad is normal and that she probably suffered quite a lot from that, i hope they end up sorting it out with no regrets.