imo its projection and/or trying to make the MC relatable to the readers? Idk there's a lot of weird people in this worldDon't call the shots too early lest you bullseye by accident.
But seriously, what's the deal with these protagonists, a trend or authors' projection or something? Maybe it's because i'm spanish but I find this level of balls-less timidity unbelievable and unrealistic. Anybody would be over the moon over having one of the school's hotties as a gf, yet...
Don't call the shots too early lest you bullseye by accident.
But seriously, what's the deal with these protagonists, a trend or authors' projection or something? Maybe it's because i'm spanish but I find this level of balls-less timidity unbelievable and unrealistic. Anybody would be over the moon over having one of the school's hotties as a gf, yet...
Yeeeeeeaaaahh... I heard of that and how it impregnates their media. Kinda explain some of the vices of their society. (Just out of curiosity, do they know the concept of unions? or societal revolutions?) No question westerners look like extremely outgoing aliens to them.I can almost forgive the lack of confidence and trepidation. This is Japan, a country where the culture is largely built around the group and places significant emphasis on reminding individuals not to stand out in any way, which includes being overly confident about themselves. It basically by design is meant to hammer you down to the point that you think you don't matter or aren't any good and your only value is what you can give to the group as a whole (like if you're an artist then you suck and are only lucky that other people like your stuff. If you're smart then you need to keep it in check and only use those brains to help others, etc). "The nail that sticks out gets hammered down." and all that.
Yet in many mangas who deal with constructed fictional worlds they push of the one with the most personal initiative, even at the cost of intelligence, to win. Weird.Plus for as much as they try to push meritocracy, Japanese literature (including most mangas) fetishize the idea of social/class stratification. They love the idea that there's you, and there's an endless gulf of people better than you who are so shiny and valuable and pure that you should never think of putting your grubby hands on them.
That doesn't fully explain it, though. Shyness and having no confidence, like Seto in Yamcha-Gal, is one thing; this guy has such problems he's literally jeopardizing his relationship.So I can see someone having no confidence if they've lived their lives believing that they don't matter compared to their social betters. the GF is regarded as this unapproachable holy being and some lowly pleb like the MC doesn't deserve to be in her orbit.
But the rest of it is just trash. The extent that he goes to or the cliche-riddled nonsense that fills the chapter aside from that has no excuse.
It's because of how much an ass ache it'd be to write a confident MC. The relationship would actually progress at a reasonable rate, not to mention it would be unrelatable to most that are reading the series. It's been a thing for so long and unfortunately not going to change anytime soon, so at this point just best to accept it, or avoid these types of series.Don't call the shots too early lest you bullseye by accident.
But seriously, what's the deal with these protagonists, a trend or authors' projection or something? Maybe it's because i'm spanish but I find this level of balls-less timidity unbelievable and unrealistic. Anybody would be over the moon over having one of the school's hotties as a gf, yet...