I think this is just one of those things where men and women perceive things very differently.
To a guy this is received as:
You're such a good guy -- I'm still alone, ergo good guys don't get girls.
How are you still single? No seriously, how did you roll a nat 20 and still manage to fuck up?
Any woman would be lucky to have you -- not me, of course, you're not my type; but any other woman.