@monkey123 Mate, Im not saying fingering is better than cock thrusting. What im trying to say is fingering is not just for foreplay. Dick feels good, that's a fact. Toys are good alternative too. But talented fingers (and mouth) can do the same, maybe better. Anyway it's the performance of your partner that will bring you pleasure and satisfaction so it doesn't really matter if it is penis fingers or dildo... at least for me.
Also just so you know, when it comes to sex there are more women who feel satisfied when they do it with a woman than a guy.