For real, and they always go back and forth between every extreme type of yandere.
It's either a shy and sweet fangirl whose just a little too obsessed, or a murderous psycho who probably is just using love as an excuse to kill people.
Is it that hard to imagine someone who genuinely loves someone and is just sick in the head? Why is it either "oh gosh I'm too shy to say I love him, so I'll take photos and steal his trash" or "I will dismember any female within a 50 mile radius of you, and then you as well..!"
Middle ground and balanced attributes, plus some actual character depth would be nice. but I guess that's too much to ask of authors.