Aye. Poor communication kills relationships.
maybe some got married in a rush but nothing wrong with taking your time/surprised some ppl wouldn't date for almost as long as they'd be married, other than pressure from other ppl or a 'time limit' on having kids, b/c maybe if there wasn't a parental/societal expectation of "Be married and have 1-2 kids before you're in your 30s" there'd be more of a chance to talk out stuff and making bullet points of what to expect going in, esp if ppl expect a 'traditional housewife' and the partners like 'i've never cooked a day in my life/burn cereal' lol
(also seems like they have a complex about that specific age being 'middle' aged when JP families prolly live a decade or two longer than the average american)
And some ppl getting married they minute they become 18, makes me wonder how many ppl would get married if it was more of a 'bureaucratic' process and required x amount of couples therapy or so, but even if they're a seemingly perf couple then, the person you are at 18 might be diff than who you are at 35 unless you live a super slow/calm lifestyle
But anyways glad it ended up in a positive note instead of circling back around to where he does something that annoyed her again