Meguro-san wa Hajimete ja Nai

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wow king your image macro really showed me thanks for teaching me the error of my ways here king let me polish that crown you dropped
 
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I happy we're following up the last chapter with this one. Very sweet chapter.
Also, I have a tooth ache now.
 
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Last page spoiler:
Days gone by are not truly gone. Like our computers, they are stored as files, maybe Zip Files, in a set of folders that you can access. One day, you will find the file's destination, and probably unzip it. In those you have stored, your 69th diary entry, your first photo of your first date, a recording on the river, all are stored in one place somewhere. You can explore more of the files, can add something in, or delete them, it's all up to you.
Now, imagine that you have done accessing the files. You close the laptop, remember how it happened, how it has helped you for so long that you have ended up where you are. You remembered how you braced yourself for the uttermost uncomfortable and the acceptances of your personality. You braced yourself to get on moving, no matter the worst can happen. You let yourself walked for so far. Every person you meet, every challenge you accepted; you just never know how they will change us forever. You just keep on moving. Your life is so limited that we never knew if we are still running on the track you've been.
And you know that one day, you won't use the computer anymore. It will break down, will lose power, unable to start up, a bunch of stuff. Just like you. You'll die, anyway.

About those files?
It will be lost, too.
But just maybe
And a little maybe
They do mark something so significant, so true,
so REAL.
Those are your files. They exist.
Then, the creator must also exist.
You exist.
Somewhere.
Anywhere.

Here.

Here.
It is human.
It is alive.

He has some kinds of things.
It's a tree.
It's a dog.
It's some kind of his being.
It's...

Something.

Do they exist?

If he exists, then all of these files,

Must have also been created from their existence,
right?

Will anyone get it?
The files?

No.

Maybe the creator does.
He does.
 
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@Samurai-cawk Thanks a bunch dude! I am new to manga but I freaking love romance!
 
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You've actually misread/misspelled his name. (Don't worry, I did too at first.) Go back and read his username out loud for full effect.
 
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I am definitely intrigued about this. One of the reasons why I got into anime and manga for the first time ever was due to the show Beastars where the female rabbit has a similar character hook about shagging up with any male due to her shortcomings. I feel this will have a good character arc.
 
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I just love reading the comments from feminists or turbo-virgins. This section's more interesting than the manga.
 
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Can't even remember when I put this into the red and white trash can, but I surely didn't miss out on anything.
 
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I like where this is going, but also hate it because if we're going with a long distance love story ending like Tsukigakirei im NOT gonna be happy ;-;
 
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Can someone put me up to speed with this? Beware spoilers.
I remember the girl is a turbo sped and likely doesn't know what the fuck she's doing at any given time
Poor sod falls in love with her, despite the rumors
This budget Rei Ayanami starts to feel something
They go out, little by little, but it happens

Did I miss something?
 
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I've just skimmed through the comments because it's honestly hard to even look at them. Did people actually read the manga, or just the title, synopsis, and maybe a few first chapters? Or maybe reading comprehension in the general public is just that bad. I have no idea.

I honestly don't even know where to start.

Meguro is not a slut. Not even close. She is way closer to a maiden archetype than probably anything else. Meguro did literary nothing wrong. Or more precisely, she didn't do anything in her relationships. She possessed no agency, hence she didn't make any decisions. Everything that happened to her is a reflection of what her partners were looking for in one. At the same time, she is loyal and committed to her current relationship basically from day 1. She doesn't care about appearances - even less so than Koga - and wants to make her partner happy, to the point of being completely and unhealthy selfless. How is that a "slut"?

Going from that, I have no idea how anyone could read the story as glorifying or justifying promiscuity when due to what I've just mentioned it's exactly the opposite. IMHO the story criticizes the disposable approach to relationships in modern culture. Meguro only had so many boyfriends, because all of them were either using her for cheap gratification or weren't committed enough to even bother to know her, someone they were allegedly in love with. Koga didn't do anything special in this story. He just started a normal, committed relationship with another person. Well, I suppose accepting that kind of baggage with no qualm would be more realistic for someone who is 25+ and actually knows and accepts how the real world works, but it's not too much of a stretch for 18 y/o to be able to do it too.

For some reason, many people also keep going back to the fact that "she is not a virgin" when it's barely a premise of the story, not the theme. Hell, it was mentioned like 3 times and maybe once in a way meaningful to the story - when Koga spoke with her sister. The most prominent theme is the acceptance of different people. Because your normal is not necessarily someone else's normal. Because there is no one definition of love or friendship or any other relation. Because you can't change the past so dwelling over it is meaningless and all you can do is your own thing, now, and as long as no one is getting hurt, leave others to do it their own way.

And yes, Meguro is kinda weird. Because she was damaged at a very unfortunate age. Funny thing is, that I don't really think that Sensei's approach to relationships is inherently wrong (age/experience difference aside - I don't think he was malicious in what he did, but he should have known better). He just pushed it on someone with absolutely incompatible ideals, which in turn caused damage by creating a disconnect between what Meguro actually wants - a committed relationship with a strong connection between partners, where you work together, support each other and overcome all obstacles - and what she was "taught" - that relationships come and go and there is no point on dwelling on them for too long, accept what comes, enjoy the moment and don't think about the future. By the time we reach the beginning of the story, she is at a point where the gap between what she seeks and what she found by accepting Sensei's advice is so wide, that she pretty much gave up and just going with the flow, waiting to be rescued.

Some issues with pacing aside, it's a pretty good story. Going by the rating of other manga on the site, it would probably be 8.3ish if not for "arg not a virgin, burn the slut" kiddos.

No idea why the Drama tag is first on the list since Drama is pretty much non-existent in it.
 
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I'm not sure what it is but the people here are either young or stupid if they cant wrap their head around a girl having exes dating a new guy with no dating experience, that's basically what it is, to sum up WHY most people think "wow what a slut" is most likely because of the uncomfy "NTR" feeling they get when reading about how she's had sex with someone else before, don't get me wrong that feeling hits me all the time when we see her past relationships, but that shouldn't define what your review is on, its like you guys are ignoring everything and just focusing in on the small lines of dialogue she's had with her ex and pushing your uncomfy feelings on the FMC (Female main character) for literally no reason E.g:"She's slept with someone else and had the sex?!!" in the process of ignoring the development and progress we've had with the FMC and MMC so far, AND FOR THE LOVE OF GOD Koga is not a simp, while he may not be a real human being, he is someone who hasn't had someone like Meguro in his life before so he's just trying his best to keep her by his side, idk if you haven't had a relationship before but you would want to keep the person in your life no matter what too. I only writ this because of @AkodoRyu, thanks to him/her i was able to speak up too : )
 
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For anyone hesitating to read this just read it.

Its with Manga a bit of self-discovery and relationships I personally reccomend it and remember to take your time.
(PS. The main heroine is Jaded...I think.)
 

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