Hitting kinda close to home on the confusion between loving friends and being in love... I myself used to struggle sooo much with it, and even though it's gotten better, it still confuses me a lot whenever thinking about the topic. I myself am aromantic, so at least I have it figured out... Somewhat... I guess. Even knowing how I am, it still confuses me.
I hope she'll find clarity soon... It just sucks being unable to understand one's feelings along with the cause and effect.