Uh... Girls, has this ever happened to you when you cry, that your senpai takes off her shirt and smooshes your head into her bosom?
but honestly I call bs on accepting that she did the "you should believe in your feelings and keep trying" trope,
if the roles were reversed and it was a guy saying that to his guy friend who has a crush on someone in his harem, I'm sure all the readers would go ballistic.