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girl, just steal him from her
Mone-san no Majime Sugiru Tsukiaikata - Vol. 3 Ch. 21 - Forest Camp Part 4
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oh man
i also want to hear mone-san heartbeat
i also want to hear mone-san heartbeat
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She definitely will not win her love. I mean, look at the manga title. It`s obvious.
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Mone-san is a sweetheart, and it's clear where that advice was coming from, but it was horrible advice. She's essentially telling Tsubaki to do one of two things:
a) Live with self-reopening wounds
b) Embrace her infatuation and become emboldened enough to toss that bomb in between a couple in a relationship that would otherwise do just fine without an outsider's influence
In effect, b) is becoming--or trying to become--a selfish homewrecker. What Mone-san said wasn't superficially wrong; the couple in question will definitely face hurdles, and it is up to them to overcome them, but the kind of hurdle that comes from something like Tsubaki could end up doing isn't something that needs to happen--it's only born of the selfishness of the third party, and shouldn't be happening in the first place.
There's a time for everything--a time to be sweet and comforting, and a time to ignore feelings and set someone straight.
a) Live with self-reopening wounds
b) Embrace her infatuation and become emboldened enough to toss that bomb in between a couple in a relationship that would otherwise do just fine without an outsider's influence
In effect, b) is becoming--or trying to become--a selfish homewrecker. What Mone-san said wasn't superficially wrong; the couple in question will definitely face hurdles, and it is up to them to overcome them, but the kind of hurdle that comes from something like Tsubaki could end up doing isn't something that needs to happen--it's only born of the selfishness of the third party, and shouldn't be happening in the first place.
There's a time for everything--a time to be sweet and comforting, and a time to ignore feelings and set someone straight.
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@Giga I mean I'm pretty sure what she meant was that she wont be able to get over those feelings without confessing or some sort of release or they won't go away cause containing it and suppressing it wouldn't help the problem and besides if the other party is in a relationship and a relatively good one at that would probably just reject it out right
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@The_qwerty: On the surface, what Mone-san was saying was what you said. However, what she said in addition was clear, there was no hidden meaning involved: "Tell them your feelings when you have the courage."
Not to the ears of affectionate feelings, at least.
Indeed, Tsubaki swallowing and suppressing those feelings of hers will only lead to them rotting her from the inside out--it shouldn't be done. The way to get past those feelings is to face them, acknowledge them, and let them go. This requires that those feelings themselves be rejected and thus denied. Now, once again, the guy she likes is in a committed, happy relationship. It takes guts to wedge yourself in between two lovers in an attempt to steal one away from the other; indeed, if you're a man, and you are attempting to do this to another man, you can expect a violent reprisal. If a third party has the intent to inform a pair of such lovers that said third party has feelings for one of the two, it's not without a reason; no matter how the reason is dressed up, no matter how much the person in question denies it, the reason exists. That reason is, of course, that third party's desire for that one lover--the very act of such a confession is, in reality, embracing and feeding the feelings that gave rise to the confession in the first place.
Simply put, going so far as to tell Mone-san's boyfriend that she's still got the hots for him in spite of his relationship isn't "confronting" her feelings at all--she'd be holding onto them, because one doesn't confess to this sort of thing because one wants to end up without the person one confesses to. Furthermore, Tsubaki would effectively be attempting to wedge her little "problem" in between Mone-san and Nobuyasu for that implied purpose--hence why she said what she did about interference (she knows it's wrong). Speaking of, even if the couple is a strong and happy one, there's no telling what such an action by a third party could do, and no normal couple would appreciate a third party trying to steal one or the other away.
So Tsubaki was right: those feelings are exactly what she needs to discard. She has to realize that she did in fact lose (even before putting her bid down), and give up; to do otherwise is to bring harm to herself and/or Mone-san and Nobuyasu.
Not to the ears of affectionate feelings, at least.
Indeed, Tsubaki swallowing and suppressing those feelings of hers will only lead to them rotting her from the inside out--it shouldn't be done. The way to get past those feelings is to face them, acknowledge them, and let them go. This requires that those feelings themselves be rejected and thus denied. Now, once again, the guy she likes is in a committed, happy relationship. It takes guts to wedge yourself in between two lovers in an attempt to steal one away from the other; indeed, if you're a man, and you are attempting to do this to another man, you can expect a violent reprisal. If a third party has the intent to inform a pair of such lovers that said third party has feelings for one of the two, it's not without a reason; no matter how the reason is dressed up, no matter how much the person in question denies it, the reason exists. That reason is, of course, that third party's desire for that one lover--the very act of such a confession is, in reality, embracing and feeding the feelings that gave rise to the confession in the first place.
Simply put, going so far as to tell Mone-san's boyfriend that she's still got the hots for him in spite of his relationship isn't "confronting" her feelings at all--she'd be holding onto them, because one doesn't confess to this sort of thing because one wants to end up without the person one confesses to. Furthermore, Tsubaki would effectively be attempting to wedge her little "problem" in between Mone-san and Nobuyasu for that implied purpose--hence why she said what she did about interference (she knows it's wrong). Speaking of, even if the couple is a strong and happy one, there's no telling what such an action by a third party could do, and no normal couple would appreciate a third party trying to steal one or the other away.
So Tsubaki was right: those feelings are exactly what she needs to discard. She has to realize that she did in fact lose (even before putting her bid down), and give up; to do otherwise is to bring harm to herself and/or Mone-san and Nobuyasu.
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