@VincentYamato Japs? What is this, WW II? "There I was in my foxhole, pinned down by countless japs, my only hope to savagely critique their webtoons . . ."
As to kindness . . . well, there are many other virtues, but if you're going to spend a lot of time intimately with someone, it's gonna go bad if they don't have any. People can think they're all that, can even
be all that, but if they're not kind, as a potential romantic partner what's in it for me?