from personal experience "doesn't even know if he's a boy or a girl" is always about shoving someone back into the closet. going "I figured it out, I'm a trans girl actually 🙂" doesn't satisfy people who say that to you. Xiaoen is reproducing her biomom's transphobia exactly in a move to hurt Xiaoyang as much as possible.We think it is, at this point, unclear if Xiaoen is expressing upset at her sibling for being nonbinary and thus creating problems for her or at her sibling for not yet being certain of if they're a trans woman or not.
We're sure it will become clear as time goes on, tho.
That's totally fair.from personal experience "doesn't even know if he's a boy or a girl" is always about shoving someone back into the closet. going "I figured it out, I'm a trans girl actually 🙂" doesn't satisfy people who say that to you.
she's pushing ppl away because she wants them to be free of her since she believes she's someone ppl should hate. She was abandoned by her mother after all. She has a trauma that she can't easily escape from
Xiaoen surely has a huge amount of passive resentment toward Xiaoyang that she may not even realise because they were the child her parents chose to keep and not give away, even though of course it's nothing of Xiaoyang's fault that that happened and their parents suck, it's definitely boiling over here in the worst way possibleMu Xiaoen spent all those years ruminating these dark thoughts and they're now blowing up onto the wrong culprit, hope she realises that and also starts understanding her enby sibling
And what would possibly happen?Wouldnt even be surprised if something happens between the brother and Xingyuan while he stays at her place, just to add even more stupid drama…