That's uh... so just because your gf is busy with a hobby and gives you less attention throughout the day you believe that cheating on her is the best solution? Not only that but with someone who clearly wants you to break up with the person you are going out with so they can have their turn (yes, turn, because once a cheater always a cheater) AND THEY PRACTICALLY MAKE IT KNOWN TO YOU THIS IS THEIR GOAL?? ...such a disappointment. Volleyball player chick deserves so much better.