My Girlfriend's Not Here Today - Vol. 6 Ch. 28 - Discordance

[anim8tur]

I wish this meant they're breaking up but they're probably going to try to work it out again. Both of them apologizing when really they should just break up. Nanase gonna be cheating with Yuki before they even come close to breaking up. I think Nananse can't handle another failed relationship because she'll feel like it's her fault, which in part was. No excuse to cheat but she was neglectful and that would make any partner unhappy.

The problem is her girlfriend, Yuni, has abandonment issues so she can't bear to be the first to leave. Also she's desperate for affection and love so any time Nanase makes a territorial move she feels there's hope for Nanase to notice her, to pay attention to her likes, so she won't have to say what she wants. I sort of understand her. We're supposed to be in tune with what our loved ones like to a certain extent. Like someone knowing another's preferences simply because they pay attention. Not everything should be said. That way the gesture comes off as more thoughtful. She thought Nanase was following through with her idea of matching but instead of becoming overcome with guilt about hurting her girlfriend, who's sporting a visible bruise which should stand as a clear reminder of her wrong, she's more overcome with guilt that she broke Yuki's hair piece. Yet again, Nanase is putting someone else above her supposedly beloved girlfriend and she's not even realizing it.

I would say they're incompatible but clearly Nanase has the capability to think about someone enough to want to offer recompense. Unless she's silently glad that she's doled out this punishment to Yuni because of what Yuni did with Fuuko, which I don't think is the case, then why wouldn't she also purchase a small peace offering for her girlfriend while out purchasing something for her friend? I know she's guilty because she's the one who broke Yuki's hair piece but how come she also accidentally hurt her girlfriend yet all Yuni gets is an apology?

Gosh, where's Fuuko? I miss her. I hope she can comfort Yuni and show her what it's like to be someone's #1. I feel if Yuni can just break up with Nanase, she and Fuuko can really be happy together. Nanase would also be happy with Yuki because Yuki seems entirely devoted to her and they're already friends, have the same interests, so no one would really bat an eye if they're seen hanging out together.

 

[Theozilla]

I meant this one, which refers to violence/abuse committed by a female partner towards another female partner.

https://mainweb-v.musc.edu/vawprevention/lesbianrx/factsheet.shtml
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Domestic_violence_in_lesbian_relationships

But I'm not an expert on the topic, so saying "the most" was my bad but there's in fact a considerable number of cases, and I compared that to this manga where there're hints of an abusive relationship.

Only the first source refers to violence/abuse committed by a female partner towards another female partner, and the range is 17%-45%, the lower range being less and the upper range being greater, than the statistical rate of domestic violence that heterosexual women report.

What the wikipedia article refers to is the statistical rate of domestic violence that lesbian woman have experienced from a partner, which is a small but significant detail, as not all lesbian women have experienced partner violence from other women only, since lesbian woman don't always have partners who are women (for those confused, there are multiple reasons/scenarios why a lesbian may be/have been in a situation/relationship where their partner is/was not a woman). The study cited in the wikipedia article noted that while the rate of domestic violence experienced by lesbians was 43.8%, only two thirds (67.4%) of that 43.8% reported exclusively female perpetrators, which would mean the rate of domestic violence for lesbians who have only ever had another woman as a partner is actually about 29.5% which is actually lower than the rate of domestic violence experienced by heterosexual women who only ever had male partners which would be 34.5% (98.7% of a rate of 35%). And unfortunately the study made no distinction between lesbian victims who experienced violence from male perpetrators only and lesbian victims who reported both male and female perpetrators.

I hope this shows people that depending how data is asked and presented, the same statistics can seem like they are saying different things.

 

[Kirowo]

Yuni deserves no one, I don't know why Fuuko is gushing over her, Fuuko isn't an angel either but compared to Yuni she sure as hell seems like one. And finally Nanase is realizing that she doesn't have to tolerate Yuni anymore and that there is someone who understands her, Yuni is acting like a total bitch this chapter and I'm kind of done with her.

 

[NorseLoki]

What right does she have to get upset? Lmao best chapter so far

 

[NorseLoki]

Remember kids, lesbian couples have the highest rate of domestic violence.

I heard divorce rates are much higher in lesbian couples. Followed by straight couples and then gay couples being the ones that stay together the most. Haven't heard anything about violence though

 

[NorseLoki]

No, i've seen some unhinged takes here going as far as shit like "Nanase is the worst she deserved to be cheated" so i'm sceptical

Yep.. people are definitely wild.

 

[NorseLoki]

Its so funny how people have been talking shit about Yuni, but every single time Nanase is being a trash GF its totally okay🤣

I wouldnt even be surprised if Nanase could cheat aswell and you all would praise her for it🤦🏼‍♂️ The amount of hypocrites in these comments are so fucking funny🤣🤣🤣

Nah if Nanase cheats instead of breaking up with Ms. Loose then she's just as bad

 

[QueenEtna]

Break up break up break up break up break up break up break up break up

 

[TempestFox]

OH MY GOD JUST BREAK UP ALREADY DAMN

 

[soda_bunny]

God Yuni is annoying. She should end up alone. Give Fuuko another, more likeable girl

Seriously, Fuuko is...Fuuko, but she definitely deserves better than this.

 

[Gulleak]

Remember kids, lesbian couples have the highest rate of domestic violence.

That statistic is the lifetime rate of domestic violance, not just withing the same sex relationship.

Plenty of lesbians go through hetero relationships before realising their sexual orientation. That statistic includes the domestic violence they experienced while with men and guess what...

 

[GooseBolt]

It's a real problem, I literally can't remember a single character name from any comic I've read in the past year

 

[MarcEvans]

For some reason people think any criticism of Nanase means you're defending Yuni cheating, which is ridiculous. I think it's pretty obvious she's in the wrong for that, so it doesn't really need repeating. But I think this chapter perfectly illustrates the problem with Nanase. She's basically treating Yuki like how Yuni wanted to be treated the entire time. She puts her friendship with Yuki above her romantic relationship, and gives her the public affection and time she doesn't give to Yuni.

That's why I question WHY these two got in a relationship in the first place. Like I really need the backstory on what made them get together, because at this stage it seems they aren't compatible at all. Nanase doesn't have her heart in the relationship, yet she's still pissed at the thought of Yuni being taken from her. Yuni is pretty understandable, but Nanase's actions still somewhat confuse me.

Idk wtf is going on with fuuko though, and it'll be interesting to see how she plays into this.

 

[MathMols]

It's a fictional story with fictional characters, don't take it so seriously

Say that to the people talking shit about Yuni every chapter, but somehow keeps defending Nanase no matter how trash she is…

 

[MathMols]

Nah if Nanase cheats instead of breaking up with Ms. Loose then she's just as bad

She is already atleast as bad with how trash she was towards Yuni most of the story… People Seem to forget all the shit she did to Yuni and she is already on the way to become a cheater, since she 100% would have tried to kiss that girl if Yuni didnt show up

 

[Goodbyefrankenstein]

The audacity of this bitch lol

 

[shemper]

Say that to the people talking shit about Yuni every chapter, but somehow keeps defending Nanase no matter how trash she is…

People can get emotional, big surprise (Objectively, all characters bear one way or another some fault in the story)

 

[GaeHuman]

tangina ka, yuni!

 

[GaeHuman]

mag break na kayo pota.

 

[ZionnC7]

She looks like she doesn't give any fuck anymore, FINALLY BRO JUST BREAK UP ALREADY