@Liliwyt, Oh I get that, I really do, rather, what I am trying to say is that I am surprised how "absoulte" (not sure if that would be the correct way to say it) the way this fandom ships, like in many other fandoms you have your most popular ships yes, but there are also not as popular but still well-liked ships, but it seems like the only ships with a following are those two.
I feel like their relationship would have been very popular under diffeent circumstances, and I don't disagree about Kou being her model and mentor, but when it comes to shipping it doesn't really detract from it (especially when you don't really expect it to be canon or anything).
Regardless I am not really trying to complain, I am just kinda sad about it lol