I think at least on the internet finding a solution yourself will be faster than just asking a close someone that actually knows what they are doing, whenever i ask around in forums i get complicated explanations and terminology i wouldnt understand as a beginner, in a sort of weird broken telephone type of game, not to mention the weird sense of wasting the other person's time with your problem, compared to slowly grinding a project that follows a written guide by yourself, realizing small mistakes you made and making sense of your errors, it ends up feeling more complete, but instead is a way slower way of solving the issue, its probably a person to person thing so some people are more comfortable asking while others would just rather not bother anyone and just try to fix it themselves