Yes.I think there's an awful lot to be said
If there's a trauma, that takes a long time with a lot of effort to get past, not just one thing that happens at one time, or one choice that immediately solves it. Even falling in love at first sight, let alone over time, usually requires more than just one thing that clicks. It can be one thing that starts it, but that can't also be the same thing that completes it.
I see much the same when it comes to a lot of male MCs as well the moment they don't act as if they're the stud in a porno and/or a psychopathic killer. I see it generally less with female MCs, but still far too often. Also FIFY.Funnily enough, this is why I get reasonably angry whenever I see a time travel type otome story and people go "Guh, this woman is such a wet blanket, a pushover, why isn't she-"
I see much the same when it comes to a lot of male MCs as well the moment they don't act as if they're the stud in a porno and/or a psychopathic killer. I see it generally less with female MCs, but still far too often. Also FIFY.