These comments half make me happy, half make me sad. You basically have the 90% 'squeeeee' group (which is me, and I love you guys) and then the 'arguing about NTR group', which is just sadness all the way down.
This is 100% non-official but can we just not respond to the fragile NTR people? Just give them a bad reaction like confused, megusad, dummy, or dumb. If you actually reply to the crazy people with text, even if your reply is 100% sane, it just feeds their paranoia and sense of self worth and gives them something to reply to. They've been validated because you replied. If they had a single shred of integrity or backbone they'd just drop the series and go whine about Gotobun instead, but no, they have to keep whining about how they no longer care about the series when they obviously do because it'll make you reply - and when you reply to them it gives them all they ever wanted in their empty existence.
There are also the non-insane people who were sorta turned off by ch3 but are enjoying it now. That's legit, I get where you're coming from! You didn't want to see that in your fluffy romcom even if it was a delusion. Without the group mentioned in the previous paragraph I think we could actually have a decent discussion about this. Maybe we'd disagree, but in a 'sane people can agree to disagree' sort of way.
But for the rest, please understand that no matter how cutting and insightful your reply is they're no more capable of understanding it than a cockroach can comprehend Shakespeare and it just feeds them - so just go with a reaction instead of feeding them with a reply.