Dad... Pick a bloody lane!
came her to express that exact sentiment.
"oh sure, marry your sister who's in junior high. But no consummating, got it?"
I think he meant for them to wait until
after they tie the knot. If that's the case, I'm behind that logic.
Also,
I liked you so much but I was afraid my feelings would put you off, so I had to keep my distance from you.
... I'm so dense for not realizing your feelings for me.
Dude, no, after how she behaved towards you, you had every right to assume you were hated/disliked before she suddenly started switching things up on you.
At least she apologized for acting that way, something that I want to see
a lot more of in stories, but still, men shouldn't be expected to be mind reading women when the latter don't even know what they want most of the time.