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@Tarage Assuming she from a society whose nobility/aristocracy practiced some form of courtly love, intimate touching was generally right out, and even things like love letters would involve go-betweens. Heck, even post-Renaissance in our world, dancing what became to be the waltz was considered a lewd peasant dance because it involved close bodily contact and not just hands/fingers touching.
As well, for most of Western history, long hair on a woman was a sign she didn't need to work and could afford the time/effort/servants to take care of said hair and was a visual advertisement of her noble waifu status. Serfs/peasants/thralls/churls would either have shorter or easier-to-manage hairstyles so it wouldn't interfere with working.
So yes, by modern standards her family's rules are weird, and even to a peasant or yeoman family of her world they might be a bit weird or overkill, but it's likely due to her family wanting to protect their marriageable investment's value until the appropriate political marriage suitor appeared.
As well, for most of Western history, long hair on a woman was a sign she didn't need to work and could afford the time/effort/servants to take care of said hair and was a visual advertisement of her noble waifu status. Serfs/peasants/thralls/churls would either have shorter or easier-to-manage hairstyles so it wouldn't interfere with working.
So yes, by modern standards her family's rules are weird, and even to a peasant or yeoman family of her world they might be a bit weird or overkill, but it's likely due to her family wanting to protect their marriageable investment's value until the appropriate political marriage suitor appeared.