Osananajimi Kanojo no Morahara ga Hidoin de Zetsuen Sengen shite Yatta ~Jibun Rashiku Ikiru Koto ni Shitara, Naze ka Tonari no Seki no Kakure Bishouj…

[cesar024]

Someone know what will happen with hanabi since it’s an adaptation of LN ?

 

[thycondrius]

Our boy got a girl! BEGONE THOTS!

 

[grrman]

Flirting with someone while they are working is sexual harassment they are literally cat catcalling him, in fact even if he was off work it would have been inapropiate

It appears to me that a lot of you people haven't talked to people outside much or observed other while out and about.

 

[grrman]

I mean, flip the genders and have it be a bunch of dudes saying "wow you're hot miss do you have a boyfriend" to Yukishino, which is pretty much exactly what Catcalling is, and is a known form of (I guess "low-grade" if you really want to split hairs) sexual harassment.
Also it being women hitting on a dude is still Catcalling, but people tend to recognize it more when it's men doing it to a woman, so.

But, sure.

A one off comment when you are talking to a person, be it server or or a stranger, is not cat calling.
Cat calling refers to making comments about someone in passing, both tame and crass comments.

And flipping the genders here doesn't change anything about the interaction either.
As long as it's a one of comment/question and stops after being declined, there's nothing wrong here.

 

[Insignis]

A one off comment when you are talking to a person, be it server or or a stranger, is not cat calling.
Cat calling refers to making comments about someone in passing, both tame and crass comments.

And flipping the genders here doesn't change anything about the interaction either.
As long as it's a one of comment/question and stops after being declined, there's nothing wrong here.

Not like I care about this. But men crying on the internet how saying one comment to a girl at work ended with them being fired or reprimanded cause the girlie gone to HR to complain about SH kinda disagrees with what you are saying. At least as long as being a coworker vs a 3rd party doesn't change the situation - aka coworker says you cute - SH, a customer says it - fine, customer continues after refusal - SH or something.

As a side note: Why do I have a feeling like author is trying to rush ruining the story. Insert rapy stuff with ex-GF, now shows new-GF seemingly not caring about the rapy stuff she witnessed, plus she still seems extremely lacking in confidence even thou they talked to each other and started dating, some heavily hinted issues with the thot-co-worker.

Like this was a cutesty romance story with a bit of drama caused by the ex. Now its borderline idiotic rape heavy drama and the cutesy stuff only shows it head for like 1/4 of a chapter.

 

[grrman]

Not like I care about this. But men crying on the internet how saying one comment to a girl at work ended with them being fired or reprimanded cause the girlie gone to HR to complain about SH kinda disagrees with what you are saying. At least as long as being a coworker vs a 3rd party doesn't change the situation - aka coworker says you cute - SH, a customer says it - fine, customer continues after refusal - SH or something.

As a side note: Why do I have a feeling like author is trying to rush ruining the story. Insert rapy stuff with ex-GF, now shows new-GF seemingly not caring about the rapy stuff she witnessed, plus she still seems extremely lacking in confidence even thou they talked to each other and started dating, some heavily hinted issues with the thot-co-worker.

Like this was a cutesty romance story with a bit of drama caused by the ex. Now its borderline idiotic rape heavy drama and the cutesy stuff only shows it head for like 1/4 of a chapter.

HR Karen's just suck and you should not pursue anything at work because some people (mostly women) are incredibly vindictive. It doesn't even matter if they find you attractive or not. They just enjoy having the ability to mess with you if you slight them in any way.

Third parties typically remove that power, so it's not this potentially world ending scenario.

Regarding your second point, it definitely feels that way. It's unnecessarily dark now, with a tone shift out of seemingly nowhere.

 

[Doomroar]

It appears to me that a lot of you people haven't talked to people outside much or observed other while out and about.

And it is clear to me that you are one step away from getting into trouble in real life and are too far up on your own head to recognize when someone is warning you about it

And a piece of advice, none of your excuses will work there, because they are invalid, you are just not supposed to go out of your way and start flirting out with people out of nowhere and make comments about their looks or whether you find them attractive, and even less wanting to date them, and even even less than that wanting to fuck them, and no casual sex proposals are not funny, regardless of what the random stranger you are aiming for is doing, simple as that

If you want to flirt go specifically to an space meant for hooking up with people, don't go around imposing your feelings on cashiers, waiters, or just random passerby and other customers, it is sexual harassment and a disruption of the public and working environment of the establishment, and enough grounds for you to be removed, yes flirting with the waiter asking them if they are single and interested on dating you is plenty enough to kick you out of a café, at least have the decency of trying to build a rapport and a relationship before proposing to a stranger who you just saw and don't even know their name

All you are doing is making things awkward for everyone by putting yourself and the people just trying to do their job out of the standards of a customer service transactional relationship

If you really want to get into their pants you will have to either put in the time and effort into befriending them first, before making any comments about how attractive you find them, your ulterior motives can wait for at least until they get to their lunch break if they agree to spending their time with you, no need to make any unnecessary comments just tell them you think they are a nice person and ask them if they would be fine with meeting with you for lunch or dinner later, and those kind of proposals should be done after you have talked more than once, spend at least a week going to the place and talking about random things, build the relationship first, do the work of trying to get to know someone without making their life harder, and if that much sounds like too much of a hassle then you never liked them, you are just selfishly trying to satisfy your desires at the expense of others

So if doing all that seems to be asking for too much effort and competence, at least be a proper considerate weirdo and ambush them with your love confessions out of working hours, which is already a bad enough look as it stands because all you know about them is that they offer good customer service and have pleasant looks, and you just had them taking your order once, but at least that way you will only be messing with their private life rather than both their life and their work

 

[MiguelH224]

author forgot about hanabi

Wym forgot? The past 3 chapters have literally been focusing on her

Nanao's snake ass was the one that was forgotten for a bit

 

[GRilledGalaxy]

Wym forgot? The past 3 chapters have literally been focusing on her

Nanao's snake ass was the one that was forgotten for a bit

I mean forgot in regards to this chapter not involving hanabi at all. Atm its just more days passing while she is getting used

 

[aheiekf]

I don’t even care enough to read the story anymore I just click through to see how the author is going to solve the entirely unnecessary highschooler sextortion storyline.

 

[Statyc]

And it is clear to me that you are one step away from getting into trouble in real life and are too far up on your own head to recognize when someone is warning you about it

And a piece of advice, none of your excuses will work there, because they are invalid, you are just not supposed to go out of your way and start flirting out with people out of nowhere and make comments about their looks or whether you find them attractive, and even less wanting to date them, and even even less than that wanting to fuck them, and no casual sex proposals are not funny, regardless of what the random stranger you are aiming for is doing, simple as that

If you want to flirt go specifically to an space meant for hooking up with people, don't go around imposing your feelings on cashiers, waiters, or just random passerby and other customers, it is sexual harassment and a disruption of the public and working environment of the establishment, and enough grounds for you to be removed, yes flirting with the waiter asking them if they are single and interested on dating you is plenty enough to kick you out of a café, at least have the decency of trying to build a rapport and a relationship before proposing to a stranger who you just saw and don't even know their name

All you are doing is making things awkward for everyone by putting yourself and the people just trying to do their job out of the standards of a customer service transactional relationship

If you really want to get into their pants you will have to either put in the time and effort into befriending them first, before making any comments about how attractive you find them, your ulterior motives can wait for at least until they get to their lunch break if they agree to spending their time with you, no need to make any unnecessary comments just tell them you think they are a nice person and ask them if they would be fine with meeting with you for lunch or dinner later, and those kind of proposals should be done after you have talked more than once, spend at least a week going to the place and talking about random things, build the relationship first, do the work of trying to get to know someone without making their life harder, and if that much sounds like too much of a hassle then you never liked them, you are just selfishly trying to satisfy your desires at the expense of others

So if doing all that seems to be asking for too much effort and competence, at least be a proper considerate weirdo and ambush them with your love confessions out of working hours, which is already a bad enough look as it stands because all you know about them is that they offer good customer service and have pleasant looks, and you just had them taking your order once, but at least that way you will only be messing with their private life rather than both their life and their work

Almost all of this adheres to none of the mores we have in the US. These are just your individual preferences.

I've worked multiple customer service roles. What we saw here is fine, especially when it's closer to the end of the interaction.

These interactions are only awkward if you let them be awkward. The way he handled it is text book, and every one leaves happy, if only a little disappointed at not getting a number.

There's no need to spend weeks rapport building with (aka, stalking) the employee before asking them for their relationship status or number.

Now, if those ladies kept pressing and tried to coerce him into giving up a phone number, that'd be unacceptable. If they didn't take the "no" the first time, they would be getting an invitation to leave.

Deciding that people aren't allowed to take the opportunity whenever it happens to be is...sad.

 

[Doomroar]

Almost all of this adheres to none of the mores we have in the US. These are just your individual preferences.

I've worked multiple customer service roles. What we saw here is fine, especially when it's closer to the end of the interaction.

These interactions are only awkward if you let them be awkward. The way he handled it is text book, and every one leaves happy, if only a little disappointed at not getting a number.

There's no need to spend weeks rapport building with (aka, stalking) the employee before asking them for their relationship status or number.

Now, if those ladies kept pressing and tried to coerce him into giving up a phone number, that'd be unacceptable. If they didn't take the "no" the first time, they would be getting an invitation to leave.

Deciding that people aren't allowed to take the opportunity whenever it happens to be is...sad.

No wonder you kept getting fired from multiple service works if that's the kind of work environment you encourage

Go take your frustrations about not being able to shot your shots to whoever you go around meeting to a therapist instead of bothering other people

 

[grrman]

No wonder you kept getting fired from multiple service works if that's the kind of work environment you encourage

Go take your frustrations about not being able to shot your shots to whoever you go around meeting to a therapist instead of bothering other people

I'm frankly wondering if you lack reading comprehension, or your mind automatically escalates every scenario you read about to the extreme.
He never stated he got fired, so no idea where you got that idea from.

 

[grrman]

And it is clear to me that you are one step away from getting into trouble in real life and are too far up on your own head to recognize when someone is warning you about it

And a piece of advice, none of your excuses will work there, because they are invalid, you are just not supposed to go out of your way and start flirting out with people out of nowhere and make comments about their looks or whether you find them attractive, and even less wanting to date them, and even even less than that wanting to fuck them, and no casual sex proposals are not funny, regardless of what the random stranger you are aiming for is doing, simple as that

If you want to flirt go specifically to an space meant for hooking up with people, don't go around imposing your feelings on cashiers, waiters, or just random passerby and other customers, it is sexual harassment and a disruption of the public and working environment of the establishment, and enough grounds for you to be removed, yes flirting with the waiter asking them if they are single and interested on dating you is plenty enough to kick you out of a café, at least have the decency of trying to build a rapport and a relationship before proposing to a stranger who you just saw and don't even know their name

All you are doing is making things awkward for everyone by putting yourself and the people just trying to do their job out of the standards of a customer service transactional relationship

If you really want to get into their pants you will have to either put in the time and effort into befriending them first, before making any comments about how attractive you find them, your ulterior motives can wait for at least until they get to their lunch break if they agree to spending their time with you, no need to make any unnecessary comments just tell them you think they are a nice person and ask them if they would be fine with meeting with you for lunch or dinner later, and those kind of proposals should be done after you have talked more than once, spend at least a week going to the place and talking about random things, build the relationship first, do the work of trying to get to know someone without making their life harder, and if that much sounds like too much of a hassle then you never liked them, you are just selfishly trying to satisfy your desires at the expense of others

So if doing all that seems to be asking for too much effort and competence, at least be a proper considerate weirdo and ambush them with your love confessions out of working hours, which is already a bad enough look as it stands because all you know about them is that they offer good customer service and have pleasant looks, and you just had them taking your order once, but at least that way you will only be messing with their private life rather than both their life and their work

I'm genuinely flabbergasted by how you escalate a simple scenario I proposed to the absolute limits.
First of all, most people generally like compliments, so long they are genuine and not sleazy. It's part of interacting with people in person. When was the last time you've talked to people outside your immediate family and in person? Because given the extreme reaction you are showing to the simple idea of people flirting or attempting to, I don't think you have in quite a while.

You can flirt with people if you are interested in them in public places. If they clearly show disinterest or make it clear they are taken, you stop, like it happened in the comic. That is perfectly normal behaviour. Just because you flirt with someone doesn't mean you immediately want to get into their pants, unless you are a player or some socially deprived freak who doesn't understand social norms.
Additionally, asking for someone's number, be it at their workplace or otherwise, isn't some insane or freakish thing to do. It's just asking for a way to contact a person outside their place of employment, usually to further pursue one's interest, be it romantic or friendship orientated. People can, and often do, just say no. You shot your shot and missed.

The only time such things are a problem is if party B clearly declined party A, and party A keeps pursuing/pushing. Then it becomes harassment.

I don't know what happened in your life that you have such a twisted and bizarre outlook on communicating with people you are potentially interested in, but I suggest you seek some help.
Take an opportunity, don't be a creep about the thing, and take it on the chin if you get turned down by people. It's called social skills.
Also, side note: Flirting and showing interested isn't some love confession. You're making it seem like people go out there proposing to randoms.
Extra side note: Some of what you are describing is straight up stalking, which is not only socially unacceptable, but also illegal in most countries.

 

[Kosnope]

author forgot about hanabi

wdym, she's working at her part-time job too, just off-screen. Better yet, it's also about servicing clients, although the glass isn't the one being filled.

 

[Statyc]

Not like I care about this. But men crying on the internet how saying one comment to a girl at work ended with them being fired or reprimanded cause the girlie gone to HR to complain about SH kinda disagrees with what you are saying. At least as long as being a coworker vs a 3rd party doesn't change the situation - aka coworker says you cute - SH, a customer says it - fine, customer continues after refusal - SH or something.

As a side note: Why do I have a feeling like author is trying to rush ruining the story. Insert rapy stuff with ex-GF, now shows new-GF seemingly not caring about the rapy stuff she witnessed, plus she still seems extremely lacking in confidence even thou they talked to each other and started dating, some heavily hinted issues with the thot-co-worker.

Like this was a cutesty romance story with a bit of drama caused by the ex. Now its borderline idiotic rape heavy drama and the cutesy stuff only shows it head for like 1/4 of a chapter.

Those crying men saying they said just one thing...didn't actually say just one innocent little thing.

HR doesn't take employees to task because they said "I like what you did with your hair", or because they asked them out.

Generally, such things should be avoided among coworkers anyway, but there's a higher bar to clear than just saying "you're cute."

 

[Insignis]

Those crying men saying they said just one thing...didn't actually say just one innocent little thing.

HR doesn't take employees to task because they said "I like what you did with your hair", or because they asked them out.

Generally, such things should be avoided among coworkers anyway, but there's a higher bar to clear than just saying "you're cute."

I kinda disagree. HR doesn't jump on people ass cause a dude said "I like what you did with your hair". They do it cause the girl who got complimented, doesn't like the guy and is a vindictive Karen. So the HR got a deep and long story of perpetual harassment, completely fictional of course. If there are no cameras - its she/he said battle, battle that dudes often lose. If the harpy also has Karen'ish friends who will lie to help her - you can just pack your things cause you are sure to be fired.

Heck shit like this often happens not cause dude just said "you're cute", but cause Karen was interested, and he wasn't, so she made shit up to destroy him in retaliation for rejection.

Thou yeah, looking for love in the office/job is probably not a best way. At least not if you work at the exact same position, if there is some separation it probably could work? Heck my parents met at company and they worked for it for like 30 years while being still together just in different branches (engineering vs accounting ) and they are still together.

 

[GIN_8_6_]

At least someone warned MC to stay away from that bitch

 

[AsteroidCreator99]

I would drop it, but I'm already too invested to do so

 

[wallsg]

公衆便所で見る花火編始まります
Hanabi in public toilets edition begins

For some reason this particular one made me think "Toilet-Bound Hanabi".