Are spirits in this story just really dumb AF!? Can't even read the room, that the 2 are living in balance right now, the world's peace will be maintained because of it, and she deliberately wants the girl to come out and pick a fight with the other side, just because you're hung up on her "destiny"??
No shit, you should've spoken with their dad first! Operative word, "spoken". Conduct your meeting with him as poorly, just what do you think both the Hero *and* Demon Lord will do to you?
*sigh* Apologies for the spaz, but for spirits and deities who watch over the world, who are supposed to be older and wiser than humans, to act so completely clueless is just...