okay this whole thing about "Oh you take things for granted because you don't show emotion and you grew up in high society so you don't know the harshness of the world." I hate that kind of mindset for some reason, like the noble women were brought up to not show their emotions to others or else they will be punished by their teachers or outcasted from their social groups and the sort, but they are still stupid and ignorant and are like "ah yes it is her fault for this, she is just mean and cold." I do not know why I am getting so mad over something as small as this but I am just getting it off of my chest I suppose because I have seen this so many times that it has basically become a cliché.