Soshiki no Shukuteki to Kekkon Shitara Mecha Amai - Vol. 1 Ch. 2

[sanctuary]

Can't these people sit down and have a civil conversation on why they can't have seggs, what is this, middle school?
They are married bru... I swear to my ***********
The guy found buying bed easier then having a conversation

yeah it's really bad and all over the place, I'd probably read 10ch and if they don't talk it out just drop it.

 

[wallsg]

To be fair mc did try to force it on her at one point against her consent which is incredibly fucked up. Both are in the wrong but the guy moreso because he puts too much focus on the idea of sex being necessary in their relationship even when its clear she doesnt want to and the girl is just purposefully not communicating properly.

It is implied in Ch 1 that he became aggressive only after quite a while of no to very little physical intimacy and she rejected him aggressively as is her right.

I disagree with a lot of the rest of your comment. Men rank physical intimacy very highly. Women rate emotional intimacy very highly. (This Marriage.com article basically says the same thing.)

In this relationship she's getting her primary need fulfilled while in their home (she'll hold hands in public at least) but he is getting nothing more than the goodbye kiss and she looks at him with what appears to be disgust when he asked to cuddle. She even doges when he tried to put his arm around her at end of the movie and rips her hand away when he tries to touch it affectionately. All of this is making him question his worth as a man and is breaking him as we see on the same page where she forcefully rejected him.

A wife who withholds sex from her husband with no apparent reason is not meeting his needs. A husband who withholds love and affection from his wife with no apparent reason is not meeting her needs. No, there is no "wifely duty" and a WIFE IS NOT OBLIGATED to have sex with her husband. A husband is not obligated to stay married either. "Unjustified and ongoing refusal to have sex despite repeated requests" can be considered Constructive Abandonment (along with physical or mental abuse, lock-outs, and kick-outs to give the other three bullets there) and can be considered grounds for an at-fault divorce. Other references: survivedivorce.com, legaldictionary.net (which adds Infidelity and Refusing to Provide Financial Support).

A marriage where one of the parties is not having their needs met is a Failing Marriage.

EDIT: One could say in general women put "too much focus" on the idea that remembering anniversaries and birthdays is necessary in their relationship to the point of making the husband sleep on the couch. (This has not happened to me.)

 

[Palolo]

...if that's your attitude about it, yeah.
Well at least the virgin is behaving like a virgin, so

 

[Speederzdk]

It is implied in Ch 1 that he became aggressive only after quite a while of no to very little physical intimacy and she rejected him aggressively as is her right.

I disagree with a lot of the rest of your comment. Men rank physical intimacy very highly. Women rate emotional intimacy very highly. (This Marriage.com article basically says the same thing.)

In this relationship she's getting her primary need fulfilled while in their home (she'll hold hands in public at least) but he is getting nothing more than the goodbye kiss and she looks at him with what appears to be disgust when he asked to cuddle. She even doges when he tried to put his arm around her at end of the movie and rips her hand away when he tries to touch it affectionately. All of this is making him question his worth as a man and is breaking him as we see on the same page where she forcefully rejected him.

A wife who withholds sex from her husband with no apparent reason is not meeting his needs. A husband who withholds love and affection from his wife with no apparent reason is not meeting her needs. No, there is no "wifely duty" and a WIFE IS NOT OBLIGATED to have sex with her husband. A husband is not obligated to stay married either. "Unjustified and ongoing refusal to have sex despite repeated requests" can be considered Constructive Abandonment (along with physical or mental abuse, lock-outs, and kick-outs to give the other three bullets there) and can be considered grounds for an at-fault divorce. Other references: survivedivorce.com, legaldictionary.net (which adds Infidelity and Refusing to Provide Financial Support).

A marriage where one of the parties is not having their needs met is a Failing Marriage.

EDIT: One could say in general women put "too much focus" on the idea that remembering anniversaries and birthdays is necessary in their relationship to the point of making the husband sleep on the couch. (This has not happened to me.)

Even without all this, the moment he said she’s purposefully not communicating makes her completely in the wrong. The only issue here is her, not him.

Majority of men won’t feel fulfilled without sexual intimacy, but this guy isn’t even getting any intimacy at all beyond a goodbye kiss here and there. Sex is important for a healthy relationship the moment one part wants it. If the relationship wants to survive, the girl has to communicate or the guy has good reasons to leave. It’s not necessary, but that’s only if both parts come to terms with such a situation. And from how his self-worth is taking a hit, he clearly has not come to terms with it. He’s just coping.

 

[Speederzdk]

To be fair mc did try to force it on her at one point against her consent which is incredibly fucked up. Both are in the wrong but the guy moreso because he puts too much focus on the idea of sex being necessary in their relationship even when its clear she doesnt want to and the girl is just purposefully not communicating properly.

No, the guy isn’t in the wrong for wanting intimacy. What? Just because she doesn’t find it important doesn’t mean he can’t find it important. You literally point out that she’s the one that’s not communicating but you somehow still say it’s more his fault. How does that add up?

 

[Rafalga]

Dude is already doubting everything about himself with the separate badroom and disgusted reactions from his supposed wife. This is absolutely miserable to read. Why would you even endure this? Oh right, fucking manga things and clueless mangaka who have never been in a relationship. Ever.

And we are suppose to believe that in the land of Japan where cheating is THE national sport, this dude will stay faithful for some reason. What a joke.

 

[fornarth]

Off topic but the more I see mc as Roland from library of ruina. Hopefully he don't get invitation to work in another city while his wife pregnant.

 

[SuplexSensei]

Holy fuck the past is still crawling up their backs.

(Is it a gun the old man is hiding inside his yukata?)