Not 100% sure, but I think it's ruler.What was he using to spank her?
They are looong overdue for a discussion of safe words. My main complaint about this deliciously perverted story. (Nana to Kaoru had the same issue, except in that one safe words were only introduced to be violated. Grrrr....).I love these dorks, but please for the love of god you two, discuss a safeword beforehand if you're gonna do "no matter what I say" kind of play.
Mayhaps it'll be a plot point. He goes overboard, they have a fight about it, they find out what safe words are.They are looong overdue for a discussion of safe words. My main complaint about this deliciously perverted story. (Nana to Kaoru had the same issue, except in that one safe words were only introduced to be violated. Grrrr....).
Apocryphal: I heard that the .JP S&M scene is - was - much less into safewords and much more about intuiting how your partner feels. Hence Kaoru's stressing over not knowing where Nana's boundaries are and either stepping over them (the early foot-play) or overcompensating (the pet-play all-dayer). It pushes a lot more burden onto the dom.They are looong overdue for a discussion of safe words. My main complaint about this deliciously perverted story. (Nana to Kaoru had the same issue, except in that one safe words were only introduced to be violated. Grrrr....).
They can't do safewords because it contradicts the basis of their relationship. She loves him because he understands her to the point of not needing to say words.I love these dorks, but please for the love of god you two, discuss a safeword beforehand if you're gonna do "no matter what I say" kind of play.
That's how it usually is with bdsm couples irl.I love how he's a massive sadist, but the sadism doesn't translate past anything sexual so he's a super nice guy otherwise.
tbf, Kaoru was almost excessively careful about respecting Nana's boundaries, at least to the point that I read. He was constantly pining about being careful, checking on her, etc. I liked that. But yeah, safe words are important.They are looong overdue for a discussion of safe words. My main complaint about this deliciously perverted story. (Nana to Kaoru had the same issue, except in that one safe words were only introduced to be violated. Grrrr....).
Precisely in a discussion about Nana to Kaoru I learnt that Japanese S&M customs doesn't make use of safe words, putting the responsibility entirely on the S and NtK portrayed exactly that.They are looong overdue for a discussion of safe words. My main complaint about this deliciously perverted story. (Nana to Kaoru had the same issue, except in that one safe words were only introduced to be violated. Grrrr....).
Not that being sexually interested in your partner makes you not a "nice guy".I love how he's a massive sadist, but the sadism doesn't translate past anything sexual so he's a super nice guy otherwise.