Nope, definitely you. Originally commented in reference to your comment. I just didn't include your comment in the quote. That's why your username is outside of the quote (which I'm quoting the manga itself), unlike how I formatted it for the other replies to other people. I probably should have just used normal " " marks. Sorry if that was confusing.
@Harry_Dong of course, noble girls are bargaining chips for their family. Kazura is "powerful" and a good man. A girl seems to be only able to pick her husband if their potential for the man to be a big player kind of thing. I also think she doesn't want to be a baby factory and she likes the fact that Kazura takes her opinion into consideration while women are generally ignored in that sense.