That's My Atypical Girl - Vol. 3 Ch. 19 - Mutual Understanding

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I get it that MC carry more about girl's mental health, but I think it's wrong to leave the cheater cheating

The people in your circle are far more valuable than the ones outside it. Spending time and energy on people outside your circle, or in other words people you have no connection to, is the zenith of wasted effort.
In this case the girls mental health is a far higher priority than some random cheating thot being a cheating thot.
 
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I get it that MC carry more about girl's mental health, but I think it's wrong to leave the cheater cheating

1. It's none of his or Saito's business.
2. They don't even know she has a husband to cheat on, she could be a single parent or a widow or something.
3. Aside from the repercussions this could have on some random family neither of them actually cares about, it could blowback on them.

I'm sure I could think of more reasons to not bother with this situation, but I'm half-asleep and don't really care about cheaters to begin with. Can't get cheated on if you're forever alone, you know what I'm sayin'?
 
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Seems more than autism/asperger now, but she has a good enough reasonrather than just being a chaotic being. Still crazy though.
 
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@77blc9jwjgplvarkamjx Ever since chapter 1 she’s had symptoms of at least 4 different disorders (ASD, OCD, PTSD, social anxiety) and has been battling emotional dysfunction from being systematically excluded, harassed, and abused with no support system to help her. So she’s angry and her perceived(?) abuser is right in front of her and there’s an opening. Honestly considering her emotional state I’m not surprised about this development but I’m happy Yokoi talked her down.


FYI, Autistic people, in general, tend to be more attached to animals than the rest of the population. It takes some serious abuse to negate that.
 
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Ah, but Aspergers people, like me, are not. Instead, they overempathize with many people, and thus, feel lots of wrath over perceived injustice done to others. At least I do, man I get her.

As it is, though, these sins often expose themselves without outside help.
 
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With that Sense of Righteousness, PinPoint Concentration and Evidence Gathering, she should've been working with Police
 
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I don’t like that anytime the female lead is about to do something wrong he never explains the morality of the situation. Diving into the reasoning on why she’s in the wrong will have change. I know just explaining the morality won’t work but it couldn’t hurt to mix it up.

One of reasons why I don’t think the relationship works irl. He never acts like his real self around her, he tip toes around each subject, all he does is take care of her. They aren’t equals in the relationship, of course in relationships there isnt a perfect 50/50 balance. But it’s too uneven. IMO they shouldn’t be in a romantic relationship. But we aren’t even halfway through, it’ll get better.
 
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@richieofall Probably because it might set her off, and this seems to be trying to be realistic/somewhat "educational/shedding a light" kind of manga (of course im no expert by and means so i dont really know, im just guessing here.)

And of course you will mostly see the MC, this is all from his perspective, and him learning how to care for her. There are time jumps where he probably does what you say he should, explaining it, they just don't show it ( im kinda spit ballin on that one, im just assuming). And him helping her, seems to be helping him. And how do we know he isn't acting like his real self? She has been here every chapter, he was alone for like 2-3 pages in the first chapter, thats it. Maybe this is his real self.

Also the chapters are pretty short. Gotta make it fit somehow.
 
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Watching over a loved one, sleeping so calmly, knowing they're comfortable... I see nothing wrong with that.

Yokoi albeit having no bigger issues, should definitely visit a doctor.

Definitely tell a person who has been cheated on if you have a solid proof.

It's better to end things before a spiral of doubt and anxiety when there's something off, rather than finding out yourself.

Even better for the kid, right now the cheating is in an early stage, it may still fix the situation of the marriage or parents heading out in different directions without a build up of negative emotions that will impact the child.
 

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