The Dangers in My Heart

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If Ichikawa was selfish and pushed Yamada to quit her job, he wouldn't be the one right for her.

Ichikawa loves Yamada for all of who she is, which includes the things she loves and works hard at it, which is her job in modeling and acting. If he forced her to quit doing what she loves (which we've she would actually be willing to do for him), it would make her miserable and that's not what he wants for her. He wants her to be happy and safe regardless of what he gives up.

And actually her caring about her job is actually a big part of why he likes her from the start. He first realizes that he really likes her when he saw how sad she felt about not being able to do her modeling job because she got her nose broken.

I actually like that her being a model is actually used to introduce another challenge and opportunity for development for them instead of being just treated as some throwaway thing to show off how beautiful the fmc is that other similar stories would treat it.
Never said anything about Ichikawa forcing her to resign. If anything, should be her decision... and her own thinking, that such "job" is diminishing to her. She can talk about it with Ichikawa, but if we have the simping Ichikawa he would simply would say "do what do you think it is best" whereas a more true to character Ichikawa would actually think in what Yamada likes from acting and perhaps suggest a job related but not the same to what she has, then she has to make decisions as well, after all, she is growing too.
 
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Never said anything about Ichikawa forcing her to resign. If anything, should be her decision... and her own thinking, that such "job" is diminishing to her. She can talk about it with Ichikawa, but if we have the simping Ichikawa he would simply would say "do what do you think it is best" whereas a more true to character Ichikawa would actually think in what Yamada likes from acting and perhaps suggest a job related but not the same to what she has, then she has to make decisions as well, after all, she is growing too.

Bruh, you have just said this:

I'm married now, well in the end of my 30s, and if there is something that I have concluded, is that celebrities, TV ones specially, have no place other than in entertainment and have to keep their opinions very well to themselves (Otherwise you have taylor swift syndrome). This is quite diminishing to Yamada's character.

Somehow I hope that she gets out of that job somehow, she is capable of far more than that crappy job can offer to her and I hope that Ichikawa is permitted to be at least more selfish towards him, as it did at the beginning of the series. At this point is beginning to become that simp that says and accepts everything, just because Yamada.

It's clearly a contradiction, coming from a evident bias you have against Entertainment world. Of course, I'm not gonna be the one defending such a world (corrupted, IMHO) but, until this point of the story, it's clear Anna Yamada is a rising star inside that world and it's practically impossible to replace it with another one, because it simply doesn't exist someting remotely similar. So, yes, I'm understanding you're suggesting that Ichikawa, figuratively, forces Yamada to give up that dream of hers because, in your opinion, she deserves better.

The point here is, however, and as @aznkane87 already explained, there is no way in hell Ichikawa is gonna do that. And I think we're facing a generational break here: in the past, women are called to give up her dreams for the sake of her men (I don't have to go very far in my life to look for an example: my mother had to do so for my father). Now, feminist waves are asking men that, if we can't quit our dreams for the sake of our women, then at least let's not become a liability for women's dreams, and since author of this work is a woman and she has already received accusations of her self-inserting in Yamada, I can guess Anna Akino's career in entertainment is anything but doubtful.

The actual question is, however, this: We all know Ichikawa is ready to sacrifice everything for Yamada and her dreams. Is Yamada gonna reciprocate? How? Because I agree it would be pretty sad and hurtful to see Ichikawa as just a househusband. And this is aggraviated by the fact we are still to see what is Ichikawa´s dream for life. But, as far as we don't enter to this moment, it's clearly wrong to treat Ichikawa as a simp just because he's 100% commited to see Anna Akino's triumph in entertainment.

Greetings.
 
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Now, feminist waves are asking men that, if we can't quit our dreams for the sake of our women, then at least let's not become a liability for women's dreams, and since author of this work is a woman and she has already received accusations of her self-inserting in Yamada, I can guess Anna Akino's career in entertainment is anything but doubtful.

The actual question is, however, this: We all know Ichikawa is ready to sacrifice everything for Yamada and her dreams. Is Yamada gonna reciprocate? How? Because I agree it would be pretty sad and hurtful to see Ichikawa as just a househusband. And this is aggraviated by the fact we are still to see what is Ichikawa´s dream for life. But, as far as we don't enter to this moment, it's clearly wrong to treat Ichikawa as a simp just because he's 100% commited to see Anna Akino's triumph in entertainment.

Greetings.
I see you probably think that current feminist waves (3 and 4) are doing anything for our world. You are way too young to understand that it is not the case (I doubt you are past 30 or you will know yourself). Yamada has dreams, might be, but then why she looked onto Ichikawa, why make it her boyfriend? to take him as an emotional support for her dream? that makes no sense. That is not Yamada, if anything, you want Yamada to think exactly like you think the world should be and that is not the case.

(Please watch
for more insight regarding this.)

You also have to understand that, at the end, it is their relationship and if they are anything serious about it, compromises are needed to be made as in all relationships these exist. The opinions that I offered relate to how Ichikawa and Yamada have been described by the author, but if the author decides to go the easy way I will see it right away and I will deem this story as just another one of the bunch describing simp behaviours.

There are good stories where the lady is a proper star in entertainment and the guy is not a simp, but their environment and how they meet together are very different (e.g. the Jdrama Star no Koi). In this story Yamada fell for Ichikawa, Ichikawa did nothing to approach Yamada. Ichikawa was very well alone and he could continue just as well alone, Yamada came out of nowhere and in the story, she seems aware of this. It is Yamada being after Ichikawa, not the other way around.

Also please note, a Mangaka, whereas in the entertainment industry, is in no way related to what an actress does it is nowhere the same amount of effort. This is very well described in animes like Bakuman.
 
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this manga is like taking and downing an entire bag of sugar with each chapter
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