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This is something that I thought I have forgotten, but recent events have made me concerned about it.
Last year, I received private message from someone asking me clearly sexual questions. She claimed to be a 19-year-old girl, and I was 28 at the time. I wasn't really comfortable, but since she wasn't a minor, I thought I could at least respond back properly. Thinking back, it seems I was treading on a thin line. Now, let me answer what you are thinking right now:
No, I did not make any sexual advance toward her.
I actually have never received anything like this before, so I was a bit confused and shocked. I have not seen her in the general forum, or anywhere else before, either. Best guess I have is that she found me through Monkey Peak. I wasn't sure why she asked me such questions, but thought that she might be having some issues, and needed to talk about it, or vent to someone. I'm not sure if I should have just blocked her to begin with, but I wasn't rude or anything. Even though I did answer her questions, which kind of feels like sex solicitating at some point, I also made it clear that I have no desire on any sexual activity. And that was the end of it. I thought she was satisfied, and I had no reason to continue the conversation, so I forgot about the whole thing, until now. I won't reveal the name of the user, or the content of the conversation in public forum. What I want to know is if anyone else has gotten the same PM last year. And to prevent complications that might arose in the future, I would like some of the staff members to check the conversation we had to confirm that I did not do or say anything inappropriate. If they think it's necessary, of course.
I probably should not have made this thread at all, and could just let things be forgotten. But I'd like to put my mind at ease.
Last year, I received private message from someone asking me clearly sexual questions. She claimed to be a 19-year-old girl, and I was 28 at the time. I wasn't really comfortable, but since she wasn't a minor, I thought I could at least respond back properly. Thinking back, it seems I was treading on a thin line. Now, let me answer what you are thinking right now:
No, I did not make any sexual advance toward her.
I actually have never received anything like this before, so I was a bit confused and shocked. I have not seen her in the general forum, or anywhere else before, either. Best guess I have is that she found me through Monkey Peak. I wasn't sure why she asked me such questions, but thought that she might be having some issues, and needed to talk about it, or vent to someone. I'm not sure if I should have just blocked her to begin with, but I wasn't rude or anything. Even though I did answer her questions, which kind of feels like sex solicitating at some point, I also made it clear that I have no desire on any sexual activity. And that was the end of it. I thought she was satisfied, and I had no reason to continue the conversation, so I forgot about the whole thing, until now. I won't reveal the name of the user, or the content of the conversation in public forum. What I want to know is if anyone else has gotten the same PM last year. And to prevent complications that might arose in the future, I would like some of the staff members to check the conversation we had to confirm that I did not do or say anything inappropriate. If they think it's necessary, of course.
I probably should not have made this thread at all, and could just let things be forgotten. But I'd like to put my mind at ease.
