Well, with one girl he is clearly the one who is looked up to and with the other she is the one he is looking up to. The problem with looking up to people is that those same people ... look down on you. Most women don't want to look down on her mate.
Put in other words ... get with the one who wants you rather than the one you want. Now I'm not saying that you should decide your weekend on that but ... I'd rather be adored than be the adorer.
Okay, time for gutter brain me to kick in ... why not BOTH. You need more information to be able to make a proper decision so we have to see them in different situations/circumstances to see which one is a ...more satisfying choice, LOL.