Biiiiig minus for that, "this is the first time I spoke with my wife," crap. I fucking hate that.
It's probably because the literal premise of this story is 0 to 100 right at the start straight into married life, then the awkward but adorable slice of life of two newlyweds that essentially just met.@okayokayokay
I also hate it. It kills some of the tension in romance. My reaction was identical.