Wrong, it's more that parents have very little input and peers and culture matter far more. Dead culture walking.Having helicopter parents is how kids grow up to be nymphomaniac whores
if that's how you see it that's your problem, i will not hide how the world is to my kids but dating is not for kids, nothing can make me see it otherwise even more so with sex, i draw the line perfectly with fantasy and will not agree to kids having sex even if protectedHaving helicopter parents is how kids grow up to be nymphomaniac whores and the more you restrict the world to them with no good reason the more they will be curious and extreme about it
Yeah if that's how u see it too, my house, my rules, the kids will be protected as much as i can while i teach them how the world is and how people can be, once she's an adult she can do whatever if she wants, i won't care too much as long as it aligns with important life lessonsJust to clarify, are you saying that you're only allowing your future daughter to date once you're no longer legally able to prevent her from doing anything?
And even once she turns 18 and starts dating you're only allowing her to hang out with her partner — nothing sexual?
i'm well aware that many will disagree with my take because it's been normalize by nowdo everyone a favour and don't have daughters. your kind will nail a saint boy to the cross.
How you gonna explain dating to your teenager daughter:if that's how you see it that's your problem, i will not hide how the world is to my kids but dating is not for kids, nothing can make me see it otherwise even more so with sex, i draw the line perfectly with fantasy and will not agree to kids having sex even if protected
sex is sacred, it's been made so common to do it nowadays
anyway i don't have anyone now to even think about having kids
not because many do it that it's ok to do it
my house, my rules
all i'm hearing is that you think i don't want them to have fun or that it's really fun to have relationships(bf/gf) or even that you only have fun by doing so, of course they should have friends, it's important but,all i'm saying it's that it's not ok to have relationships as kids, i won't have that in my house, they need to have enough maturity for that and most kids aren't mature enough, dating is not for kidsBro. How can you not see how toxic this is? This is the exact same energy of parents who removes locks or doors on their kids' rooms, go through their phones / check their messages, force them into hobbies that you think are appropriate but they hate. They did not have a choice to be born to you, and just because they are your kids doesn't give you the right to ignore their free will. They'll be born in a prison with you as the warden for no fucking reason.
Your kids are going to fucking hate your guts.
What the fuck are your parents like?
You aren't going to protect them, and any life lessons you try to impart are going to fall on deaf ears because you're not coming to an understanding with them, you're imposing your will on them. The only thing you're going to teach them is how to lie and how to not get caught.
Please do not have kids.
i see enough people who date around me(they are not kids)How you gonna explain dating to your teenager daughter:
Uhm, in this context that's not the kind of argument you think it is...i see enough people who date around me(they are not kids)
Well it's hard to understand without giving details and i also didn't give detailsUhm, in this context that's not the kind of argument you think it is...