I mean, in this situation, she is the one that pussied out, not him. If your partner isn't comfortable, decent people sure as hell won't persuaded them to do the deed. Like you said, go at your own pace, and her pace ain't there yet here.c'mon now, banging a girl who's down isn't a crime. you are being just as dramatic as the person you are criticizing. the real point that should be made is there are no rules for how people should interact, go at your own particular pace.