i really hope there's something to learn here other than just filling out our excuses repertoire. He really needs to work on his need for approval. He's 40yo, and talks about facing "the wall" but in reality that is just a projection of his own character, he doesn't find his wife atractive, and therefore he doesn't like his wife bc she is ok being with him and that disgusts him. It is so devastating how he says he didn't lose his family yet when he clearly lost it the moment he went to the hotel but he is not ready for that reality check; oh, the things we say to avoid seeing we're are, indeed, the bad ones, the awful ones. That being our biggest mistake, because we never learn to control it.
