Why is Chitoge the example here lol? That girl doesn't do a single proactive thing in the entire series
Sounds like he's been hurt repeatedly and learned to trust no one. He thinks he won't be harmed as long as he keeps everyone at a distance and never exposes a weakness. It's a common setup, quite relatable, actually.What is the backstory to warrant this levels of delusion though?
Yeah, when you're a pessimist and see something that looks too good to be true, you can't help thinking 'what's the catch?'He is building up entire scenarios in his head and convincing himself on the spot.
99% of seinen progagonists are losers no girl would be interested in IRL. This one is just self-awareYou can't just wave it away with "low self-esteem".