If you truly are a man, BE DECISIVE AND ACCEPT THE CONSEQUENCES WHILE KNOWING THEM. If it's a no, then say NO. If it's a yes, then say YES. Accept the consequences or learn about them along the way and be open about it. Receive it with all you got. That's what being a man is all about. BE STRONG AND ACCEPT THE CONSEQUENCES THAT COMES WITH YOUR CHOICES, IT'S CALLED RESPONSIBILITIES! THAT'S WHY WE ARE LEADERS OF A FAMILY, BECAUSE WE MAKE DECISIONS WHILE OUR WOMEN SUPPORT US WITH CHOICES AND INFORMATIONS.
He didn't even clearly say whether it's a YES or a NO. He just put it for later. He didn't ask for informations from the dragon earlier or anything. At this point he's just making excuses to skirt away from the matter.
You’re not him. And if you think choices are as simple as just “yes” or “no,” then you’re the one who doesn’t understand responsibility.
It’s ironic that you bring up “responsibility” while advocating for reckless decision-making. A true leader doesn’t act impulsively-they think before they choose. Making a decision without considering the consequences isn’t strength; it’s carelessness. I sincerely hope you never have to lead a family with that kind of mindset.
In fact, isn’t delaying an answer to think things through even harder than blurting out a response on the spot? Instead of avoiding the issue, he’s taking the time to weigh his options. How, then, can you say he’s running away from the matter?
With your mindset, you are the type to act and think later, which, more often than not, is a red flag in a person. You clearly have no experience in being a leader, or at least a good one. Don’t sully us men with your absurdity.
Edit: Just saw the banned status. I’m not surprised.