The amount of people refusing to see that he actively pushed her away once he started taking his career seriously is a mood.
-She wanted him to take work seriously, as he scarcely improved over years
-He DOES improve
-She's happy with what she sees, and tries to reciprocate, finally knowing he's taking work seriously
-He pushes her away for an ENTIRE YEAR after she tried to connect with him
-She made her companionship conditional, which is unhealthy, but he played his part in this outcome too
-She wanted him to take work seriously, as he scarcely improved over years
-He DOES improve
-She's happy with what she sees, and tries to reciprocate, finally knowing he's taking work seriously
-He pushes her away for an ENTIRE YEAR after she tried to connect with him
-She made her companionship conditional, which is unhealthy, but he played his part in this outcome too