Dame Ningen no Aishikata - Vol. 3 Ch. 13 - A girlfriend who fights for a useless human.

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Crazy how the story with the pathetic masochist boyfriend and the spineless sadistic girlfriend has one of the healthiest relationships i've seen in manga.

When you read between the lines of everything she says, all the FMC keeps trying to hammer home is dude shouldn't be posturing because trying to fake having everything together makes him come across as more desperate.
 
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If anyone has the bingo card entry for the “bro-con younger sister”, well, you might want to hold onto that one.
However, to win the bingo, he has to hold the "brocon oneechan" bingo card this time. Just wait till the chapters where "Onesho-sensei" (ONESYOTA_goat... Shinba's older sister) appears get translated.

Tbf, i saw the raws on its time, and was bewildered at how petty Hizumi can be. Miyabi may be playing with fire, but happens Hizumi is a nuclear central fire and plays on a different league. The femme fatale wannabe will always end as a femme fatalisée in front of a real femme fatale, so Miyabi either gets the hint, or Shinba will have to step in if those 2 get too violent on each other.
At least within the toxicity, Hizumi is as wholesome as you can expect from a woman with abandonment issues, seeing how she trusts Shinba despite of things is kinda refreshing in these type of stories.
 
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When you read between the lines of everything she says, all the FMC keeps trying to hammer home is dude shouldn't be posturing because trying to fake having everything together makes him come across as more desperate.
However that goes against the comical premise of Shinba (and his family by extension) being (an) absolute losers who won't do anything good no matter how far he tries and Hizumi having issues with abandonment.

I get it was an extra for the 2nd volume, but wasn't Hizumi's worst nightmare being basically Shinba getting a hold of himself?
 
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Beyoncé's "JOELENE" was just running through my head this chapter 😂
Isn't that a Dolly Parton's song from my boomer parents' time?🤣🤣

But yea, in this case, Jolene fits this chapter (and possibly whole manga) to a T. The only thing Hizumi fears and will be hurt forever by is if someone steals Shinba from her or if he voluntarily gives up on her. As if Shinba is the only thing she has left after her favorite low budget B-Movies theater closed down.
 
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However that goes against the comical premise of Shinba (and his family by extension) being (an) absolute losers who won't do anything good no matter how far he tries and Hizumi having issues with abandonment.

I get it was an extra for the 2nd volume, but wasn't Hizumi's worst nightmare being basically Shinba getting a hold of himself?

Kind of this double-edged sword where her deepest fear is if he gets himself too much together he'll come around to the idea that he no longer needs her anymore.

So I respect that it is also a two-way street where they both clearly have issues to work out.
 
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However, to win the bingo, he has to hold the "brocon oneechan" bingo card this time. Just wait till the chapters where "Onesho-sensei" (ONESYOTA_goat... Shinba's older sister) appears get translated.

Tbf, i saw the raws on its time, and was bewildered at how petty Hizumi can be. Miyabi may be playing with fire, but happens Hizumi is a nuclear central fire and plays on a different league. The femme fatale wannabe will always end as a femme fatalisée in front of a real femme fatale, so Miyabi either gets the hint, or Shinba will have to step in if those 2 get too violent on each other.
At least within the toxicity, Hizumi is as wholesome as you can expect from a woman with abandonment issues, seeing how she trusts Shinba despite of things is kinda refreshing in these type of stories.

Heh - yeah, older sister, not younger one. It was funny to see Hizumi lop a missile and blew that shota fantasy-land to bits in her mind. Although that damage was so bad that she literally gave up on being a shota mangaka and showed up at Shinba’s door (weren’t they supposed to move in together..?!)

And yeah, holy crap, it turns out that despite her own issues, Hizumi is actually fairly outwardly sane and even-keeled.
 
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godddd the art is so fking good bro. The story is so good as well. I actually wait for an update to this manga cause it’s THAT good. She cooked that hoe as well
 
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I have mixed feelings with this manga one side i hate on my deep in my heart becuse of the toxicity of the characters and other side the art is amazing i just hope the mc becomes more confident or find a nice girl unlike his "girlfriend" who constantly degradation him because i can't read the manga probably yeah i m idiot or coward
 
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Heh - yeah, older sister, not younger one. It was funny to see Hizumi lop a missile and blew that shota fantasy-land to bits in her mind. Although that damage was so bad that she literally gave up on being a shota mangaka and showed up at Shinba’s door (weren’t they supposed to move in together..?!)

And yeah, holy crap, it turns out that despite her own issues, Hizumi is actually fairly outwardly sane and even-keeled.
The funnier shit... the missile had Hizumi's evil face and her "haha!" signature tic.

PD: next chapter won't come out 'till Aug. 16th. And the free reading in comicwalker will end in 6 days. After August 7, the whole manga will be paywall'd, mimicking the official english.

Also author threw a trivia about Hizumi on twitter: he doesn't consider her neither a yandere or a tsundere or a menhera woman, he simply sees her as a person who's devoted to her bf.
 
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