Shin'yuu no Furin Aite wa, Otto deshita - Vol. 1 Ch. 2

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I feel like it might be the 'uptight friend' being the affair partner versus 'man chaser' to subvert expectations or wahtever

Would a male manager giving lingerie to a female coworker be considered sexual harassment?

Considering JP sells vending machine panties (or they used to?) , it is a bit weird even if it's like those cotton multipack walmart has versus something 'sexual looking', i wouldn't even want that from a female coworker versus like "I had a gift card that was about to expire/i don't go to this place usually so i bought these panties but they're not really my thing" and give them to someone else. tho still would rather them being in packaging rather than loose or so grabbed from a bin lol

(tho depends on how expensive underwear is in JP lol)

although it's also awkward to be like "how are things in bed" even to a friend or so lol versus them also being married and bringing it up b/c they have issues with their own husband


I wonder if the coworker knows and is trying to snitch or so. tho it'd prolly just be better to blackmail the husband or whatever depending on the story
 
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Would a male manager giving lingerie to a female coworker be considered sexual harassment?
I feel like a female manager giving a female coworker lingerie can still be considered sexual harassment. I guess it depends on the vibe?
But anyway I'd rather get chicken stew...
The joys of trying to not get a bad outcome.
There's really just one simple answer to all this: avoid talking to coworkers on personal matters, stuff outside of work. Heck, if you can, just avoid talking to them entirely, or at the very least make sure it's not just the two of you talking alone.
 
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There's really just one simple answer to all this: avoid talking to coworkers on personal matters, stuff outside of work. Heck, if you can, just avoid talking to them entirely, or at the very least make sure it's not just the two of you talking alone.
Figure out who you can trust as a friend. You also don't need to overshare and leave yourself vulnerable.

There's a huge difference between talking about a family gathering or your hobbies versus sex life.
 
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although it's also awkward to be like "how are things in bed" even to a friend or so lol versus them also being married and bringing it up b/c they have issues with their own husband
Hmm. But if you're their friend then you know what lines to cross with that friend.
Like if I have to give an example, I can ask 1 of my friend anything (i don't) and he'll sometimes share it himself too, while another one will never talk about that stuff and also would never like being asked.
 
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Would a male manager giving lingerie to a female coworker be considered sexual harassment?
This is harassment regardless of who did it. Coworkers giving that as a gift is insane, if she was friends with her manager and it was outside working hours it'd be different but seems like it wasn't...
 
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There's really just one simple answer to all this: avoid talking to coworkers on personal matters, stuff outside of work. Heck, if you can, just avoid talking to them entirely, or at the very least make sure it's not just the two of you talking alone.

Yeah but depending on where you work other than casual small talk some ppl take it personally if you don’t wanna “befriend” your coworker unless you can pull off some resting bitch face/cold personality that wouldn’t affect a work relationship too

I feel like a female manager giving a female coworker lingerie can still be considered sexual harassment. I guess it depends on the vibe?
But anyway I'd rather get chicken stew...

I’d also prefer stew depending on how good it is but other than a closer friend or the coworker cooking as a hobby they usually would make enough for everyone versus Like a single extra serving for one coworker

Tho I guess a coworker giving lingerie for multiple ppl that’s not part of an mlm scam or some kinda weird group company gift would be weird , altho if it’s general free clothes like a spare jacket that’d be nice
 
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If I were to guess out of those three friends it would be Rio. Based on how she was about the whole “normal” thing then how quickly husband remembered her and left after mentioning them (though I thought it was Momoka the man killer at this point). Also she could use her Cafe as an excuse to be with him without her partner knowing.

I am curious about who put that bag there.
 
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I love the author's comments. Sounds like they've had very interesting experiences.

Thank you for the translation (while it's not something I condone, I kinda respect the audacity one has to gift sexy lingerie in one hand and chicken stew in the other 😆).
 
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Yeah but depending on where you work other than casual small talk some ppl take it personally if you don’t wanna “befriend” your coworker unless you can pull off some resting bitch face/cold personality that wouldn’t affect a work relationship too



I’d also prefer stew depending on how good it is but other than a closer friend or the coworker cooking as a hobby they usually would make enough for everyone versus Like a single extra serving for one coworker

Tho I guess a coworker giving lingerie for multiple ppl that’s not part of an mlm scam or some kinda weird group company gift would be weird , altho if it’s general free clothes like a spare jacket that’d be nice
If companies are giving out free jackets they can sign me up..
 
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Forget cheating, Rei is just a cheaty partner. I like to believe that's less and less happening in the West, but I hate to see people stay in loveless and/or abusive relationships.

Here, she's just his personnal maid. He's not even listening to her for her to even start an important convo. Can't tell if it makes it worse or better that he's not fucking her.

The fact that she gave up her carrier for this makes it even worse. I really hope this story will build up to her seeing that the cheating might have been a blessing in disguise, freeing her from that tool, and the investigating might lead her to reclaim agency in her life and really look deeper into it.
 

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